I’m so sad, I happened to travel to a new area for vacation and one of my coworkers/internet friends lives there, so I decided to meet up with him. For reference, I am F, 25, and I work a remote job on a team that has only this guy as the other member, which means for the past half a year or so we used to call and work together for almost 8 hrs a day.
He has seen my face before over video chat but not my body and my face is deceptively slimmer looking than the rest of me. I would consider this guy to be one of my closest friends of this year.
When we finally met up, as soon as he saw me he was so dismissive. I could tell something was off. Didn’t want to sit next to me, didn’t want to walk next to me, cancelled our plans to go home early. Now he won’t even message or call me for work related stuff.
It feels so miserable, I had no idea this would happen since online he is soo kind. And it’s not even like I catfished him or disappointed him on a date since we are just coworkers. I acted completely like how I always do over call, the only possible thing I can think of is because I’m fatter than he expected.
Has this happened to anyone before? How do you deal with it? I’ve had this happen in dating scenarios before and I would say this almost hurts more since we are just coworkers. Is my weight such a problem I can’t even expect general respect from a coworker?
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