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Weight Loss for Everyone: November 2022

Wednesday, November 30, 2022

Third time here, heaviest I've been. Accountability buddies?

Hey all,

It's my night before my Day 1.

I honestly don't know what I weigh because I'm nervous that stepping on a scale will put me in a mentally bad place. The last time I weighed myself (in October), I was 170 lbs. My clothes are now tighter. But tomorrow, im going to get on the scale and assess where I am.

I'm 38 years old, 5'1 and my goal weight is 135lb. I know that sounds heavy for my height still, but it's actually what I weighed in college, and it looked great on me. I've done Noom. I've done CICO here and there. I've even been on this subreddit before.

I really, really want to find the motivation. I want to find the willpower. The thing that has oddly helped me the most in the past (I've been up and down in weight since 18 years old) is writing down what I'm thinking and feeling and reaching out to other people on this journey, too.

Is it weird if I post multiple times a day on here? Is it OK to use this forum for accountability buddies?

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GF Wants Me To Stop Weight Loss.

A couple years ago I started losing weight. Standing on the scale and seeing 430 spooked me. I’m now down to 286, and tbh I could have done better. My girlfriend doesn’t want me to continue weight loss after I reach about 250, as she has a fear and disgust for men with knobby pointy knees. My first ideal goal was to make it down to 180 and then put muscle on.

Lil weird, but I love her and would like to meet halfway. I’m 5’10. Not sure how to meet her halfway though. What’s the changing point between knobby knees and bear dad bod? cause I’m looking for something between that.

Any input is appreciated if this post goes live lol, sweet dreams folk imma read this in the morning

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How long will it take to return to weight loss after being off the wagon?

Some background: 38M, been eating better/living a healthier lifestyle for almost exactly 2 years.

Between late November 2020 and this spring, I lost about 150lbs doing a combination of mostly OMAD, combined first with normal eating, then pretty quickly into mainstream keto, and then more paleo/keto, and finally a quasi-carnivore diet. Every now and then I'd have cheat days, but would get back on track pretty quickly. At my lowest point, this spring, I got within about 20-30 lbs of my target weight (I'm 6'1").

This summer and fall, I've been traveling a LOT - and not only have I loosened up my diet while on the road, but I also was eating 2 or even 3 meals a day, because I found it impossible to eat enough at one meal to last me for a full day. Additionally, while I was walking a lot, I wasn't able to do the resistance exercises that I had been doing pretty regularly at home

I'm finally back home for a while as of two weeks ago, and over the summer and the fall I had gained about 16lbs from my lowest point. I've been pretty strict in terms of what I eat since I got back, but have been getting super hungry in the early afternoon, so I've been doing 2MAD, more or less.

I haven't lost any weight in two the two weeks I've been back, despite eating MUCH better and less frequently than I was during my months of travel, and resuming my resistance training. I've even mostly cut out cheese, which was a staple on my keto/carnivore diet, because I've heard it can hinder weight loss, but it hasn't seem to have made a difference.

Did a year and a half of OMAD make it so that I can't eat 2 meals a day? Or is it just that several months of bad eating is going to take longer to undo? I'm kind of scared that I'm on an upward trend, and I don't want that!

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Can I eat 1500 5 days a week and then 750 for the other two?

Please don't downvote me to oblivion! I am genuinely curious and this seems like a good choice for me if it's ok.

Total that would be 1285 calories a day if you portion your calories for a week.

I can eat 1200 but I hate it. Ironically I am way happier to eat a smaller amount 2 days a week and would make this healthy - my plan is coffee with milk (couldn't ever go without unless for financial reasons), smoothie with lots of greens, and then a broth based veg soup and about 200 calories from chicken.

I wouldn't say I'm starving on 1285-1300 at all. I just don't like it. It's just a dull time for me to have to think about doing for months to loose the last 20 lbs. I like the option for a 200 snack in the evening.

Has anyone done anything like this?

I am totally ok with all the comments telling me this is a bad idea.

Thanks!

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So close to my end goal weight after 7 months of dieting/cutting but yet wanting a break.

I’ve been dieting since April and have successfully lost 65 pounds since then and have been cutting calories the majority of the time apart from a few factions and holidays.

I am aiming to lose “just” 10-15 more pounds to reach my goal weight but after dieting for so long honestly I’m kind of tired of it. But at the same time I don’t want to stop and “waste” time and just want to reach my goal weight and finally be done with it which I am likely just 2 months away from. I feel like if I pause, I’ll get complacent and won’t be able to get back into things.

Has anyone else felt similar after losing weight for 7 months? What would you recommend, keep pushing for another 2 months or take a couple weeks off and try to pick back up and lose a month of potential progress.

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30 Day Accountability Challenge - December Sign Ups

Hello lose it folks!

It is almost December, the last month of the year, can you believe it? This year is almost done. And many celebrations that in America center around food & sweets. It’s going to be a month full of learning & possibly peppermint flavored everything.

For the newbies to the sub reddit, please start here, so much good info!

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/quick_start_guide

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/faq

And hey, maybe it’s not a bad idea to review them regardless of where you are in your journey.

Let’s get down to the business, shall we?

This is the sign-up post to outline your goals. Please don’t limit yourself to weight loss or health goals, we’d love to hear about your reading list, chores, whatever you want to do in the month ahead.

There will be a daily update post for you to post how your day went, you can use whichever daily post fits your time zone if that’s an issue too. Don’t feel bad for missing a day here & there, this post is to help you feel supported however often you would like to check in.

At the end of the month, there is a wrap up post to reflect on the progress you made or didn’t make & what you learned. Learning is progress, don’t forget that!

We try to foster a supportive, caring place to discuss the actual day to day of deficits & counting & caring so much about how we fuel our bodies & lives. So be kind, interact if you like & hopefully you feel supported and cared for. Leading by example, here I go!

Maintenance calories: Going for maintenance this month.

Exercise 5 days a week (strength work/tbar swings 3 days a week): I need this both for my body & mental health! X/X days.

Do holiday stuff everyday that brings me joy: Nebulous, maybe, easy, also kind of. Maybe one day it’s taking a detour on the way home to look at lights, maybe another day it’s watching a Christmas special, maybe another day it’s chasing my cat with mistletoe. Who knows. I want to emphasize the parts of this season I enjoy so I can handle the stressful shit better.

Writing goal: TBD. I'll have this hammered out by tomorrow. .

Today's gratitude list: Today, I'm grateful for -

Random self-care action I want to conquer today: Changing this one up a little so I remember to take care of me!

Now, onto the fun part, your goals. Please share & let’s end the year on a winning note!

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Tuesday, November 29, 2022

30 Day Accountability Challenge - Day 29

Hello everyone!

Tuesday! Day 29! Thinking of your goals for next month? Dang this year is running out so fast.

Forgive me for not having the sign up post up, I'm against a word count deadline & I will do both tomorrow!

Onto goals!

2000 calories a day (lose two pounds this month): On it today. Taco salad for dinner with fake meat.

Weigh in & log weight once a week, Thursday mornings: Logged this week. NSV – Pass on this one today.

Exercise 5 days a week (strength work/tbar swings 3 days a week): Lunch walk! Made it! 19/29 days.

Sober November: Nailed it. I allowed myself to imbibe on Turkey day. I've proved my point to myself & I'm satisfied.

Nanowrimo: I’m in the home stretch kids. I’m going to try to sneak some more in. 44,237/36,667 words & 6/4 write ins.

Today's gratitude list: Today, I'm grateful for the party store. It was such a fun store to look through & I got wrapping stuff for the gift season ahead.

Random to do list item I want to conquer today: Get good sleep.

Your turn!

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Would RingFit adventure on the switch be a good way to lose weight?

I have the switch, ring, strap, and game of course, but I’m wondering if it will actually help me lose weight. I’ve tried it before and really haven’t felt the effects, but I’m determined to try seriously this time. I got a really nice leather jacket at Ross, but it’s too tight to button it up, which is why I wanna get rid of this gut I have.

So would RingFit adventure be useful? Has anyone else tried it and seen real progress?

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What are some healthy natural snacks to consume to avoid processed foods?

They say cutting down on processed foods like chips, soda, cookies and candies will help you lose weight. But what are some healthy alternative to eat to stay full with your weight loss journey. I mean what are some foods to consume if you are trying to eat less calories deficit. People say that consuming less carbs is good while others say to eat more protein and high in fiber foods. What fruits are good to eat if you plan to reduce the calories you normally eat. How do we lose weight honestly, I just always thought doing cardio workout was the way but diet also plays a huge role. But it’s confusing how do we actually get started. I downloaded the fitnesspal app to see how many calories I’m consuming but it’s shows “base goal 1,533” but for remaining it shows 586. Does this mean that I ate less calories? I’m 5”6 154 pounds and I’m 26

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What are the basic needs in a diet?

I went to a vegan nutritionist and it didn't work out. For the record, I had my suspicions that she was vegan, but she never really said so.

Tried to eliminate meats thinking it was going to get me where I needed which is to lose an extra 10 kgs past my target weight, which I already reached and have maintained throughout an year. But this is unsustainable, I cannot live on goddamn beans, fake meat, tuna, tortillas and bread. I get incredibly hungry and just eat out when I run out of food from my groceries.

I've had a lot of stresses in my life lately and haven't been able to focus on this. That shit is over and it's time to restart and refocus.

So I need some help. Like what should I generally eat in terms of macros and calories per day?

Moreover, I don't suppose there are any tips for people who need to eat well but are too busy?

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I guess acknowledging me as a person was too much for my family this thanksgiving.

For context, I was a chubby kid but a fit young adult, and a mildly thicc adult for most of my life, but recently i've gained over 40 lbs in the past 3 years, making me the heaviest i've ever been. It's happy weight, I moved in with my now wife, and have been eating deliciously at home and drinking often with our friend group on weekly hangouts. Work is stressful and I travel a fair bit for it, so keeping up with exercise has been backburnered for a while.

I visited my extended family for the first time since the pandemic this past holiday. I expected jokes and teasing, I expected surprised reactions after hugs, I expected concerns over long term health from the kinder hearted folks. There was a bit of that but not much... instead I got multiple Aunts/Uncles and even 1 cousin greeted me with nothing but some variant of "Fatty or Fatso" in our native language. Not "hey fatty, how are you doing?" just "fatty" Not "hey man, looking a little heavy, packing down the snack haha" just "Fatty".

What the actual fuck.

Glad being raised in this family means I can rebuild the walls around me at a moment's notice. Not to mention the years of my wife's sensitive gentle care breaking down those walls. I feel like an angry teenager again.

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How to lose visceral fat, but maintain overall weight?

Hello!

29F/170cm/56kg (5 feet 7 inches, 124 pounds). I really don't want to lose any more weight overall, as I am already at the lower end of a healthy bmi. However, my waist is thicker than I would like it to be.

Does anyone have any recommendations for how to lose visceral fat in particular? I know there are no exercises that achieve 'spot reduction'. But I have also heard that there are some things that can affect fat distribution e.g. hormones/cortisol/cardio? Would appreciate and scientific literature on the subject. Is it as simple as I need to try and be less stressed?

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No motivation, end up relapsing?

Soo,

Sometimes I find myself not having motivation to continue, and slowly start again with bad habits, in a "why even lose weight" sense, which sucks. but then I regain motivation when I look at pics of me or other people (this not so much)

Any tips on how to stay motivated? I would appreciate it a lot! Feel free to share what you do, what helped you in your journey, or anything in between :)

Today i overate and feel bad about it, because I just didn't have the motivation. I don't know anymore, any tips?

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Monday, November 28, 2022

I MADE IT!!

Success on weight loss

I MADE IT!

A little late on posting this because I’m nervous sharing something that is very personal to me. But I started at 304lbs on Jan 1st of 2017 and said I’m done living like this and I don’t care how long it takes to get to 200lbs. After many failed diet attempts and finding what works and doesn’t. I am please to say back on November 19th which was the 2148 day since starting I finally made it.

Quote that really helped me through all of it: “I don’t pray for easier times, I pray for stronger men.” -JFK

Thank you everyone in this community for the positive posts that kept me going and good discussion! Anyone else here made there weight loss goal or close to it?

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Where to start - Ankle Injury & ADHD

Since January of 2022, I (28F) have been recovering from an ankle sprain. After insurance changes and finally getting it looked at by a specialist in August, I found out I have a completely torn ligament and 2 partial torn ligaments that I'm getting fixed in surgery next week. With the ankle injury I have, it has led to limited mobility, limited gym abilities, and an increased focus in trying to eat healthy, but still have put on around 45lbs since my sprain (180lbs in January 2022 -> 225lbs now).

I have also recently been diagnosed with ADHD and cannot for the life of me figure out where to start, how to stop the occasional binge eating, and keeping up with habits. I completely understand the logic of CICO, but I can't figure out how to stick with it. I also can't find the motivation to go to the gym, but also at this current point in time couldn't push myself in the gym even if I wanted to. I am feeling completely lost and would love any advice for people that have had ankle injuries, ankle surgery, and/or ADHD issues.

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Would the median between BMR and TDEE be a good number to make your calories?

For example, if my bmr is 1700 and my tdee is 3000, would a good amount to eat be 2350? or would it be too low/too high?another example with more similar numbers, bmr 1800 and tdee 2300- would a good amount to eat be 2050?

My idea is obviously you have to eat above your BMR to be healthy, and you have to eat below TDEE to lose weight. so surely the middle is good? But the deficit would be so different depending on your exercise (in the bigger example, youre in almost a 700 deficit, while the smaller example youre only in 250) so im wondering if it would still be healthy / effective? or if it would be too drastic of a deficit if youre exercising(for big ex) or too small for sedentary(for small ex)

Im just wondering if this would be a good way to do it, or if just sticking to a '-500 from tdee' is better.

if i use my median method, loseit tells me i wont lose weight very fast(about 1/2 lbs a week). but if i use -500 method, loseit tells me its 'dangerously low' and that feels bad.. So which should i do?

(fake numbers for example)

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My mum admitted to me something I suspected

So me and my mum were having a conversation and talking about my sister for context she has a 2yr old and we were discussing how healthy my sister is we were surprised how my nieces diet wasn't as healthy as we'd think. She occasionally has takeaways and her snacks usually have something processed.

whereas my sister eats nothing processed and very "healthy". Which in reality she's very obsessive about watching her food and restricts herself.

Now we grew up with our mum on constant diets restricting herself and all that.

So as we were talking she said what I think it is, is when your restricting yourself you make others foods that you won't allow to have yourself. 😳 I have always thought this growing up she always fed us children more and gave us foods that she never ate etc. I thought I was just being over the top and blaming it on her but to a degree I was right.

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Lose It! vs MacroFactor

I have used Lose It! a couple of years ago and it has worked well for me in the past as well. I eventually "fell off the wagon" when I didn't log several days in a row over the holidays when I wasn't in control of the recipes, ie I didn't know exactly what to log.

I am thinking I'll get back on the horse and I want to start logging food again but I have noticed that there are a lot of rave reviews of MacroFactor. I also noticed MacroFactor is a paid app, the price isn't prohibitive for me but I'm also not in the habit of paying for something if there is a good free alternative. Is MacroFactor worth the premium over Lose It! (free version)? Someone who has used both, how do they stack up?

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3 days into a maintenance break…. And not lovin it??

Long time lurker here :) My stats are 41F, 5’4”, SW230+, CW170-180 (I think- still haven’t bit the bullet to get on a damn scale). Been at this since January 2022, sticking to 100 days of deficit followed by 2 weeks at maintenance calories, deficit calories around 1600, maintenance calories around 2000, including 150+ grams of protein.

I recently started my third maintenance break of the year and quite frankly feel horrible. I expected a little bloating from extra food volume but this is ridiculous. And I am actually HUNGRIER now than I was in deficit?!? Random urges to eat all the things that I thought I had conquered (haha). I am trying my best to channel Half Size Me Heather and tell my lower brain to go somewhere else with that nonsense, I’m sticking to the plan but I’m just surprised to be feeling mentally weak when I should (or expected to) be feeling more satiated. I had been eagerly anticipating this maintenance break but I kinda want it to end lol. The energy boost I was expecting from 400 extra calories has not materialized. My big plan was to hit the gym and up all my weights now that I have some extra fuel in the tank to work with calorie-wise but the reality is that I could hardly get off the couch today. Uuuugh. My previous maintenance breaks felt much smoother and I did notice an uptick in energy levels.

Anyone else out there expect great things from a maintenance break and ended up feeling let down? Will I adjust eventually or did I screw things up for myself by cutting for too long, and now my body is trying to swing the pendulum to the other extreme? Tips and tricks or even just some encouraging words appreciated! Love this community- the first thing I read when I wake up in the morning!

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Sunday, November 27, 2022

Demotivated and frustrated and desperate.

Extremely whiny post coming up, just want to rant. Turn away if you’re not interested.

I am 28F. 85kg. Trying to eat less - no special diets, just less food. And hating every minute of it.

I haven't been happy with myself for a long time and even though my life is generally fine at the minute, this particular problem/mindset keeps getting worse after everything I’ve tried. I am so unhappy with my body and my weight, and I’ve gotten into bad habits where I curse the number for not budging a smegging inch and then cursing myself by comfort eating and eating snacks that I don't even like and drinking things that don't make me feel good. Everything according to the internet is unhealthy, it's either 99% exercise 1% diet or 99% diet 1% exercise, no one can give me a straight answer on anything, and it's probably one of the most difficult battles ever in my life against a completely invisible enemy (me). I use LifeSum to track what I eat and according to the tracker I’m not eating enough. Yet my weight doesn’t budge. Not a single number. I thought I’d gone down a little bit but nope. Just sits there at 85kg. Might go down 1-2kg in the space of a few days. Otherwise nothing. I’ve been doing this for ages and not a single pound of fat gone.

I feel so hugely unattractive and heavy, refuse to have my photo taken in any capacity, and nearly screamed at one of my colleagues for taking a pic of me without me knowing about it (I chose not to say anything). and no matter what I do the number does. not. budge. To the point I am beginning to have desperate and rather scary thoughts about what to do. and it sucks. And it’s so so goddamn frustrating when like everything you eat is unhealthy. I bought rice which is apparently unhealthy now according to my app. What the hell is wrong with rice? it’s like WHAT the fuck are you supposed to even do? Oh but you also can’t eat too much of the same thing either?!

It’s fucking miserable, and I hate every minute of this. Starting to wonder if this is even worth it when I hate it so much and am feeling so rotten about myself :(

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30 Day Accountability Challenge - Day 27

Hello everyone!

Happy Sunday! Has anyone else just been craving vegetables since Turkey day? I ordered salad stuff to have on hand this week & my body is the happiest herbivore.

Onto goals!

2000 calories a day (lose two pounds this month): On it today. I made frozen mashed cauliflower with bbq pork for lunch & holy crapola did I want veggies.

Weigh in & log weight once a week, Thursday mornings: Logged this week. NSV – Pass on this one today.

Exercise 5 days a week (strength work/tbar swings 3 days a week): Rest day. 19/27 days.

Sober November: Nailed it. I allowed myself to imbibe on Turkey day. I've proved my point to myself & I'm satisfied.

Nanowrimo: Look at that word count total. I may very well make it. I was legit proud to report this to y’all. 41,036/36,667 words & 6/4 write ins.

Today's gratitude list: Today, I'm grateful for past me for making time for myself this weekend. With so many things that we love but also require time, it can be easy to forget to make you time happen. This is a stressful AF time of year too so please y’all, make some you time.

Random to do list item I want to conquer today: Already done did it today. If I do anything more tonight it will be for funsies.

Your turn! Are y’all thinking about next month’s goals as the Yuletide season creeps upon us?

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Am I the only one who hates the feeling of being full?

I can’t explain it too well. So I’ll use what happened today, for example, I had a very busy day and honestly didn’t have much time to sit down and eat, I think about a fourth of my daily allowed calories from 7am- 7pm, so I sit down, and decide because I have a LOT of calories left over, I can have something that I normally wouldn’t be able to fit in my calorie budget with my other two meals that day. Important to note that even eating it will still put me under my budget. So I do, but after I finish eating I just feel full, bloated and disappointed in myself as if I just ate 5000 calories even though it’s a normal sized meal and I didn’t go over my daily limit? I don’t know why I feel this way and not proud of myself.

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Having trouble again, why?

So about 13 or so years ago, I went from 300 to 180, and since then generally hover around 190-193. There was one time 6 years ago when i got together with my now wife where i got back to 220, started counting calories again and went back to 190. I am currently 198, and i am having so much trouble being motivated to maintain. Like I have a very bad sweet tooth and that seems to be winning the fight, and i just eat too much. Some of the changes that have happened in the last 2 years that may potentially explain it? I had a child (he is the best thing ever), but up until about 2 weeks ago, i worked full time and watched him full time. That lasted about 2 years. I also have not had a vacation in 3 years. On my last vacation (a year ago, literally last christmas) my wife broke her wrist on day one, so i had to take care of both her and my son. I look pretty much the same, wife tells me i'm being crazy being so worried about it, but the scale said i have gained. Maybe I'm having trouble being motivated cause i look the same and my clothes still fit? I have a one week vacation coming up which i can't wait for. Maybe it will be easier to get back on track after that? Ugh, i'm just so discouraged. Any advice?

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Can't stop binge eating.

Hey.

So I've made many posts on these weight loss subreddits.

But, I've realized, all my problems came down to one thing: binge eating.

So, ever since I was young I have been a compulsive eater due to trauma response, and I've been in a calorie deficit for a while.

I'll be doing good on the weekdays, and then overeat on weekends.

I don't know what to anymore, I'm a little lost. Please, can someone teach me how to fix this? Can anyone that's been through the same help me? I'd appreciate it.

Thank you ❤️

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I hurt my back again pretty badly and feel really depressed. To the point I don't even want to get out of bed. Really need some encouragement/advice

Hi all,

As the title says, I've injured myself pretty badly again.

A couple of years ago, in the summer of 2018 I hurt myself doing deads. This took a lot of visits to doctors/chiros, rehab work on my own (although inconsistently) and a lot of time away from the gym. An MRI showed disc desiccation had occurred, which is some sort of drying of some liquid in the back.

This time, it happened on incline DB press (I know, right?). Never had an issue with this exercise before in relation to the back. But I guess when the weight got heavy and I started grinding reps, my back arched and I fucked it up..

I just recently got back into the gym since late June. After a long, long layoff (since before covid). I wasn't even doing deads or squats. Tried to be extra careful because of my previous injury. Stretching before the workout, doing warm ups with several lighter sets on several exercises. And it still happened.

I gained a lot of weight during covid lockdowns. WFH, ordering every weekend and doing fuck all. The weight was finally coming off, I was regaining my old muscle and even making new gains. Now I feel like I'm back to square one. I don't even know how long this thing will take or what to do? It's just the day after now and my back is so goddamn stiff. Sitting on the toilet, walking, coughing, releasing gas, it's all uncomfortable. Laying down on the bed/floor is still better. I wanted to get my 10k steps for the day in regardless, but don't even feel like doing that.

One really annoying thing is I'm still fat right now. I didn't cut enough since I rejoined the gym. Now I can continue doing my walks and some sort of cardio (eventually), but even then without the lifting I'll lose a lot of the muscle I trained so hard to get. Just a really shitting situation.

Maybe after a few weeks, I'll get back and do whatever I can that doesn't compromise the back to much. Like cable crossovers, curls, tricep press downs, etc. Sucks I won't be able to do OHP, incline bench, but better than nothing I guess.

My personal life isn't great either and I won't get into that here, but the gym was an outlet. Just somewhere I could escape and make progress, even if I wasn't making progress in many other areas of life. Now for the time being, even that's gone.

Anyways, just wanted to vent a little. Thanks for reading.

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Saturday, November 26, 2022

Anyone else have 18+ hour days - how to manage diet/workout timing?

Hi all - I work as a resident physician, and my workday usually begins around 0500, I get home usually around 1800, and then I have to study when I get home (in addition to all the other various life responsibilities). I feel like I am handling my daily schedule OK because I'm pretty regimented, but looking for ways to further optimize schedule. Should I try waking up around 0400 and getting a workout in before I go to work? How should I space my meals out during the day to maintain energy and still have enough mental capacity when I get home to work a little more? I am a surgeon in training so having energy throughout the day is important, because on surgery days I sweat a lot. I appreciate any help.

Edit: I have lost a pretty good amount of weight in the past few years, but trying to squeeze out the last 10-20 pounds, which I know is primarily diet related, but having a hard time staying on it with the stressors of work and lack of sleep.

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I went 1100cal over my usual goal today (800 over maintenance). Should I go in a deficit next week?

I usually try to eat around 1500cal a day but worried about plateau so starting to drop it to 1400.

The last few days I’ve eaten 900-1300 as I knew I’d eat a lot this weekend but didn’t think I’d go this much over. We also did a lot of walking.

I feel defeated, but I genuinely don’t feel uncomfortably full or anything and all the food was really nice, I’m spending time with my sister so trying to enjoy it, she has a bad relationship with food so don’t want her to feel bad by refusing snacks either.

Tomorrow we’re going out for food too but I am leaving in the afternoon so probably will eat to maintenance or possibly less hopefully.

Should I aim for 1200cal a day next week to balance it out?

Edit: today I ate 2500cal

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Stupid boob question

Hi, I'm new here, sorry if I'm not using the NSFW flair correctly but it's a kind of embarrassing question. Please don't ask for pictures or say inappropriate or lewd questions in the comments, I am being serious.

I started gaining weight when I was 17 and about 130ish lbs, ended up putting on 50-60 lbs over a period of two years, and thus went from a B cup to a D cup. I'm 20 now, realized enough was enough at 190 lbs, and began losing weight in late September this year. I'm now 172 lbs. I don't exercise much, just eating a LOT less carbs and sugary stuff.

Onto the stupid question. Since I've started losing, my boobs haven't really gotten smaller as much as deflated. They don't look too bad now, but it's enough that I'm concerned about them just getting more floppy and looking terrible with the more weight I lose. I'm going at a rate of about 1.5-2lbs of loss a week, and I can't get any clear answers from Google about whether or not my skin will tighten with my loss, everything is just saying to get a breast lift. Which seems kind of ridiculous, since I'm still pretty young. Any advice or personal experience is welcome.

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gym beginner question

im a fat guy and ive just started lifting weights, i like to feel ive actually done something in my workouts rather than stay still and relax after finishing a set. i know how im not supposed to be doing cardio with weight training bc cardio will make any muscles smaller and not bigger. but im pretty fat so i really dont care about becoming big muscly, i just want to lose fat as fast as possible and after that i can think more about showing muscles, is doing cardio incorporated with weight training in the same hour good?

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After losing 150lbs to get healthy, I am pregnant.

TW: Pregnancy and fertility issues

Hey y'all. Some of you may remember me as the volume eater who encouraged people to eat more low calorie stuff to feel full. Well, I have PCOS and some other chronic diseases, and with my poorly controlled diabetes (which is now back to pre diabetes levels), my menstrual cycle was a disaster, and my endocrinologist recommended weight loss to get pregnant but said that it'd still be a tough journey because most of my ovaries were covered in cysts.

Well, once I was at a healthy weight (I'm still technically overweight on BMI, but it's because of loose skin) and with lab values all normal, I got off the pill with the blessing from my three doctors, expecting it to take a long time to get pregnant.

7 weeks after getting off birth control, I got a positive pregnancy test. No treatments. No nothing. Just naturally pregnant.

So uhh... Pretty cool effect.

Figured I'd share since I've had an ultrasound now.

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Under desk cycling machines?

Does anyone have any experience with the sit on the couch and peddle kind of cycling machines? Did they help at all?

I'm too self conscious to feel comfortable at the gym, we don't have space or funds for a treadmill and where we live there isn't really pavements to exercise on (plus exercising in public is something I'm not comfortable with). However I want to increase my amount of exercise.

I'd be grateful to hear people's experiences / thoughts! Thanks in advance :)

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Friday, November 25, 2022

How to lose facial fat?

I am ftm and have lost about 17 lbs (currently around 108 lbs and 5’2) and my face is still pretty chubby. Is there anything I can do to fix this? Will it be better when I loss 5-8 more pounds?

I used to have a slimmer face when I was around 105 lbs but I honestly don’t know of losing 3 pounds would make my face look slimmer. I am just so sick of having no jawline and chubby cheeks when I’m at a healthy bmi and at a weight where most people have slimmer faces.

I do have hashimotos but I take meds for it and I also rarely drink alcohol. Do I need to drink more water? Should I be exercising more? How can I get rid of my double chin 😭 please help

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Is it possible for me to go down to 95lbs?

Much needed context: I’m a very short woman (4’11) and currently weigh 120lbs at the age of 23 years old.

I initially got my state ID when I was in middle school (~ 12 years old) and at the time I weighed 95lbs. Whenever I renew my ID, it has that same weight and in a way I feel like that number is taunting me.

I stopped growing in middle school and remained 4’11 up to now at the age of 23 with no signs of getting taller unless I’m wearing heels.

I know it’s been over 10 years, I was a tween, and i’m sure my body has changed a lot since then which is why I’m wondering if 95lbs is a realistic goal for me?

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I am terrified to go to a gym?

I just picture walking into the gym and having all these very attractive big buff studs turning to look at me with a look of disgust on their faces. I can picture them trying not to burst out laughing. I’m very scared. I am pretty they are thinking “omg she’s so ugly. Why would anyone let themselves get that big? Why is she so sweaty two minutes into the workout? She is going to break the machine. She is absolutely disgusting. I’m sure she is a virgin. Why is she wearing jeans?”

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Anyone binge so hard they got flu like symptoms?

I ate a lot last night. About half way through a triple stack of fully loaded waffles it hit me that I was done. The compulsion took over however and I kept forcing the food.

I went to bed not being able to sleep on my back and struggling quite a bit to breathe. Later that night I felt like I had chills and almost like I was getting the flu.

Now 13 hours later I'm starting to feel not so bloated and I'm starting to feel better. Anyone else ever have this? Or could I have gotten some mild food poisoning perhaps?

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Proud to say I'm no longer counting calories!!!

I started my journey start of September. I started by tracking what I ate for about 2 weeks it was a bit fumbley as I had my birthday and ofc I'm going to splurge. I had the mindset of no foods are off limits as I hopefully am now recovered from BED.

I had worried that I would have to continually count my calories for the rest of my life and honestly some people feel they have to do, if that's what works best for them then great! But I recently decided to stop as I was getting annoyed with having to input every ingredient etc and I'm still losing weight.

I have lost about 10kg so far, very easily which I'm not complaining lol but my worry of forever counting calories is gone 😊

Just wanting to share my win.

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20k steps yet only 1.8k burned?

With a grain of salt, all this data is generated by my Garmin watch and its best formulaic attempts. Generated from several sources, my TDEE is 1,466 for 5'6" + 145 lbs. Over a seven-day period, my watch displays an average calorie burn of 2.3k. Yet, today I only burned 1.8k...

Today my activity was walking 20k steps & a 1hr heavy lift. How is it possible on one of my highest activity days, I'm only at 1.8k?

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Thursday, November 24, 2022

Did anyone else's HDL (good cholesterol) lower while losing weight?

Had a blood test, my LDL and Cholesterol stayed virtually the same which is fine since they were always in the normal range. But my HDL which was in the normal range at 1.24mmol has dropped to 0.911mmol which is the poor category. I'm eating healthy and walking more than before, I've read a couple sites that indicate this can happen when you start losing a lot of fat but not too many sites actually agree with this and they say I'm in the "danger zone".

Has this happened to anyone else? I went from 270 to 243 in about 6-7 weeks. 1.24mmol was in Feb and 0.911 mmol was yesterday.

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Progress

I have hated myself my whole life. After 10 years of school bullying I am finally started to heal my scars but it is a slow process.

This year I have able to lose about 25kg from 101kg -> 76kg. I am still going and the target is 60-65kg. I am worried that my weight loosing path has started to be part of my ocd and mentally I have to only eat 1000-1500 calories or I feel fat.

I have discussed about this with my therapist, which has helped. But now I am looking for others that are or have been in same situation that could help me to find healthier way to loose weight.

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Cardio or weights?

Hi peeps, I’m F/168cm/75kg trying to lose 12kg back to my old weight before covid which is 63kg. Before this I used to train with weights but as I get more heavier, I find it harder for me to work with weights. I’m not sure how to describe it, but I just feel so heavy but at the same time I can’t really feel my workout with weights sometimes. Is it due to the reason that I did my workout wrong? Beside that, I am aiming for a leaner body so can I get advices on should I go for cardio as well or mixed both together?

P.S : sorry for the bad english and thank you in advance for the advices.

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3 years

3 years ago, I started my health journey and through a rocky path, I'm now back up to 90-something kg, with my health deteriorating again, feeling awkward and the worst - and the most unfit - I have felt about my body in a long while. So, 3 years is what I'm going to give myself to train to climb to the top of Ben Nevis (the tallest mountain in the UK) and I want to complete it in 7 hours. I've got a lot of weight to lose, and I've got to build my fitness from nearly nothing. But I will do it. I have a goal and I must complete it; I've lost too much life to all that has happened in and because of a body that doesn't feel like my own. I am not prepared to lose anymore. I have reached my breaking point and I will put every part of my headstrong personality into getting there.

Ps, I know this probably sounds intense, but if I didn't tell someone my plan, I fear I would have never committed. :)

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Ive lost 54lbs but have been on a plateau for 5 weeks

So im a 6ft1 male the weights 244lbs I have a significant amount of muscle, but still want to lose another 20-30lbs. I work out (lift weights 5 times a week) and try and do at least 30mins of low intensity cardio 3 times a week. Im eating 2100 calories a day with a macro split of 254g protein, 120g carbs, and around 70g of fat.

When I started dieting I weight 294lbs so I've lost a decent amount with the same diet I'm on now same macros and everything however the last 5 weeks I haven't lost any weight at all it. My weight fluctuates from 241-244 but I can't seem to get under 241lbs my goal weight is 210-220 with around 15-20% bf. I think I've hit a plateau.

I religiously count my calories and track everything I eat with my fitness pal I weight out all my food as well. I was wondering if I should drop my calories more because my body has adjusted to me eating 2100 calories, however I'm worried that if I drop them more I'm going to lose muscle mass. Which is something I don't really want all my lifts are good and haven't dropped significantly since I started dieting in April of 2022.

I was wondering if anyone on here has had the same experience of plateauing like this and if so what should I do to continue my weight loss journey. My only choices rn are to increase cardio or drop my calories. My guess is my body is used to the amount I'm eating now and my metabolism has regulated because ive been dieting to long. Anything helps.

Ps: this community is awesome and is filled with great info!

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30 Day Accountability Challenge - Day 23, 24 & 25!

Hello everyone!

Day 23, 24 & 25! I hope you will all have a lovely holiday if you’re celebrating. I'm going to give myself a little time off & I will encourage y’all to post here for days 23 – 25. I will see y’all again on Saturday!

Onto goals!

2000 calories a day (lose two pounds this month): I’m going to aim for maintenance & some guessing will be at play for the American feast day ahead of me. I started the day with a long walk & yoga to start out on a good foot but there will likely be some indulgence in my afternoon.

Weigh in & log weight once a week, Thursday mornings: Logged this week. NSV – Pass on this one today.

Exercise 5 days a week (strength work/tbar swings 3 days a week): 35 minute walk at the local botanic gardens & I will be up and about a fair amount with light cooking & cleaning duties. 16/23 days.

Sober November: If I want to have a little bubbly or wine this evening I will allow myself to partake. I feel I have proven the point to myself that I don’t have an issue here. I'm not inclined to over indulge either. 23/24 day(s).

Nanowrimo: I will make time for this today. I’ve set aside Friday to do an at home write in & I will not be doing any other to do list items, she reminds herself, loudly. 25,286/36,667 words & 4/4 write ins.

Today's gratitude list: Today, I'm grateful for the places I've found family of choice & community almost on accident.

Random to do list item I want to conquer today: Make merry & express gratitude for the people & things in my life I love.

Let's hear all about y'all! I'd love to hear your unusual family recipes for holiday meals too.

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Wednesday, November 23, 2022

Food struggles

Hey all, I've been trying to lose weight for awhile, but I'm pretty dumb on the topic and could use some tips.

I'm 34F, 220 lbs. I took the plunge and signed up for a 45 min, 3x a week gym class catered to people new to exercising who had a lot of weight they wanted to lose. The class is interesting and helpful except for two things:

1) In six weeks, I've lost zero weight.

2) I struggle with fatigue normally, but after going to the class for six weeks, I was starting to get nonfunctional. I couldn't think straight at work (I'm a software engineer), was too exhausted to do chores in my house, etc. A couple of times in class I nearly passed out. We weren't doing anything that difficult.

I think the problem might be food related. Previously when I wanted to lose weight, I just ate less, and I always managed to lose 20 lbs within a few months while barely trying. But since COVID, that hasn't been working. Over the past few years, I've gotten into the habit of only eating one meal a day because I'm so busy at work and I hate, hate, *hate* cooking and am bored with almost all food. I used to drink iced tea all day and would just eat one meal when I came home from work, but I've switched out the iced tea for water with Nuun tablets. Haven't seen a difference yet.

I've recently been diagnosed with gastroparesis and my doctor says I have to eat more meals -- at the very least, start with the normal three meals a day, but six meals a day would be optimal. It's been a struggle. If I eat during the day, I get really grumpy and hangry, and it also annoys me because nothing is really appetizing to me. If I don't eat, I don't get hungry and I can focus on my job. But not eating is probably worsening my gastroparesis symptoms, and I don't know if that's the cause of my extreme fatigue when exercising.

Does anyone have any tips to get down the right path? A calorie deficit is easy when I'm only eating one meal a day, but much harder when I'm trying to eat more. And although I'd love to lose weight, I'm much more concerned about my fatigue problems. My hopes was that exercise and getting more into shape would give me more energy, but my current attempt has led to me feeling so much worse. I have to be doing something wrong.

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Trying to unlearn some habits I had as a kid and looking for advice. Losing but slowly!

When I was a kid, my parents never asked or told me to stop eating. I'd eat entire boxes of cereal in one sitting. I'd drink an entire 12 pack of soda if we had it. One time I ate an entire box of Swiss Cake Rolls in the time it took my mom to go back out to get the rest of the groceries. She was convinced she forgot to buy them. Nothing was ever said about any of this.

Now I am 30. I can't remember the last time I opened a bag of pizza rolls without finishing the entire thing in an hour. If I buy a box of popsicles, it's gone by the end of the day.

I work out daily. I even am running races. But I am losing so slowly because of my awful, poor eating habits. I just can't control it.

Can anybody relate? Or have advice to offer? I know it's just a matter of discipline but I simply cannot stop. I don't know why.

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I changed my eating habits because I learned what was in my food

First time poster! I have found a great community here reading through everyone’s posts. I wanted to share a tool that has completely changed my perspective on my snacking habits and has helped contribute to a 25lb weight loss.

Some background info: I (29F, 5’3”, SW: 185, CW: 159) have progressively gained weight throughout my 20s. As the years went by my mental health got worse (depression/anxiety/PTSD) and I turned to candy/chips and other generally high sugar and high fat foods for comfort. And as those years went by, I gained more and more weight. After not seeing extended family for the last two years, my partner and I took a trip to visit everyone and there were lots of family photos taken - it was my first realization of how out of control my emotional eating had gotten and how it was impacting me physically.

Throughout my 20s, I had tried (and failed) to make consistent changes to my diet and exercise routine. I’d try logging calories and stick with it for a few weeks, and life would seem to get busy and I’d stop (and the emotional eating/snacking would start again). It wasn’t until a family member shared the Yuka app with me that I was able to be successful in changing my eating habits.

The Yuka app is a barcode scanning app for food and cosmetic products. It informs you of any hazardous ingredients in said products, and offers recommendations for similar products that don’t have hazardous ingredients. It’s an independent app (companies don’t/can’t pay for sponsorship or have their products be classified as excellent if they aren’t), and it links to studies demonstrating why that ingredient is hazardous. For example, a scanned product could identify whether there are endocrine-disrupting ingredients, and link to studies demonstrating the research behind the health impacts of that ingredient.

Having this tool has completely changed my eating behaviours. I just can’t justify eating foods that are carcinogenic or are linked to other harmful health effects. Having the ability to see what is a better replacement has been huge. I did a mini experiment to see how I would feel making dietary changes to avoid foods that had any listed hazardous ingredients.

And, after a month of these changes, I felt great. I had more energy, and was able to incorporate more exercise into my day. I’ve lost 25 pounds in about 15 weeks by making better food choices to start & incorporating exercise after a month of diet changes (now doing 15 minutes of cardio before work 3-5x per week, and weight training for 30 minutes 4-5x per week when I get home). It started with the horrifying realization of how bad my food choices really were and why they were so bad. Once my eating improved, the rest (exercise and portion sizes) seemed to follow. I’ll try CICO to get to my goal weight, but the Yuka app is really what got me to where I am today.

I wanted to share, in the event anyone has struggled like I have!

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tips for staying within my calorie goal on thanksgiving?

i know that tomorrow is a holiday and i thought about allowing myself to just enjoy the holiday and not count calories. but personally, i don’t think that would be a good idea for me. i’ve been very back and forth with my binge and restrict cycle and im really trying to overcome my binge eating disorder. i feel that if i allow myself to eat whatever i want tomorrow, i’ll end up binging and eating until i’m sick. i binged last night and have spent all day with a stomach ache and feeling so uncomfortable. i hate feeling that way and i don’t want to keep putting myself in that position. i’m planning on just eating the one big meal with my family and then having a small breakfast. im also trying to calculate everything beforehand so i can just make my plate tomorrow and not have to try to count it all in the moment. im feeling pretty optimistic and i think i have a pretty good plan in place. what is everyone else planning on doing tomorrow? if anyone has any tips, that would be great too! :)

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Hungry before sleep

Hello guys, there is a problem. Usually I take my last meal for 4-5 hours before bedtime. However, I really want to eat something for an hour before sleep(not talking about snacks, but about full meal like during morning or dinner). So, should I do it? On one side, it will not allow me to lose weight. But on the another, it may negalively affect my metabolism(not sure about that). Also, I started my jounrey approximately 5 month ago and lost +-20lbs, but my process has fluctuations and this issue appeared recently.

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Problems with your period after starting dieting

F28. I started to reduce my calorie intake drastically -going from over overeating & binging to some 1,500 cal per day (my BMR)- 3 weeks ago and I've had my period twice this month. The second one is very heavy and the first one felt like it was cut short. It could be just a coincidence or causd by something else, but the way it happened at the same time I got serious with my diet made me wonder if it may be because of that. Did this happen to anyone else here?

Btw I don't usually have issues with my period and I don't think I have EVER had it once in a month so this is quite strange. And yes it's been a drastic change in diet but I am seeing that I eat enough and also varied in terms of achieving healthy macros (but the type of food I eat has not even changed that much, I just reduced portions and eliminated snacking & most sugars).

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Tuesday, November 22, 2022

30 Day Accountability Challenge - Day 22

Hello everyone!

Day 22! Off to the races.

Onto goals!

2000 calories a day (lose two pounds this month): On it today!

Weigh in & log weight once a week, Thursday mornings: Logged this week. NSV – Looked good in my dress today.

Exercise 5 days a week (strength work/tbar swings 3 days a week): 30 minute lunch walk & lots of erranding & cooking. 15/22 days.

Sober November: Yup. I'm considering allowing myself some festive imbibing for Turkey Day so long as my streak stays until then. 22/22 day(s).

Nanowrimo: I may do a little more tonight. I'm cruising along. I’ve set aside Friday to do an at home write in & I will not be doing any other to do list items, she reminds herself, loudly. 25,286/36,667 words & 4/4 write ins.

Today's gratitude list: Today, I'm grateful for the folks I work with. They have accidentally become family.

Random to do list item I want to conquer today: Long shower & or bath this evening.

How was your day?

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Unsolicited Advice: A Tale Of a Grocery Store Queue & Carbonated Water

Long time lurker; first time poster here- be gentle.

Here’s my stats: 5’11” 35m, SW:266, CW:234, GW 175 lbs.

The setting:

I’m in the line to check-out at the grocery. In my cart are nine cases of store brand unsweetened unflavored sparking water.

My family and I plow through this stuff, but me especially during my weight loss journey. My wife had pre-ordered the bulk of our groceries for curbside pickup, but she neglected to order the bubbly water.

So as I’m inside the store in line, and an older gentleman- I’d say in his sixties, starts a conversation with me.

The Encounter:

Older Fella, keen on disrupting the lives of others: “Looks like you’re thirsty.”

Me, an innocent shopper minding my own beeswax: “Ha, yeah. It’s for me and the family. We love this stuff.”

OF: “You know, you oughta quit that stuff.”

Me: [raises eyebrows and squints, not eager to hear more]

OF: “I was watching a video on YouTube, there’s a guy who drank nothing but RedBull and it rotted his pancreas and guts out. Guys on life support.”

Me: “oh, well, this is just water. Water and carbon dioxide”

OF: “that’s stuffs NO good, you’d be a lot healthier if you gave it up- probably lose weight too”

Me:”this is just water. Can’t give up water. But thanks for the unsolicited advice, Sir.”

I then turned around and didn’t further acknowledge his existence. He was only purchasing a pack of D batteries.

As it was an express self-checkout that he was waiting on me for- I took my carbonated & unsweet time ringing up each individual barcode and carefully reloading each case into my cart.

Is it an uncontrollable impulse of old men to foist their YouTube insights upon strangers? Should I have told him where he could stick those D batteries?

Anyways, thought I’d share my frustrating experience. Good luck out there, gang.

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Does anyone else struggle with more hunger during cold months?

As stated in the title, does anyone else struggle with this? I've gone from having control over my hunger and losing weight, to being STARVING all the time now that the weather is cold. I'm trying to consume some warmer things like oatmeal and herbal tea, but it has been really difficult. I gained about a pound back since October and I don't want to continue to gain weight back in December/January/February. Does anyone have any advice or tips to deal with cold weather hunger?

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thank you

thanks to the people in this group i have learned so much in the last month

i have gone from 95 kg to months ago to 86.3 kg this month

i had a bad injury so i really cut my calories to 1500 a day and have been using easy diet diary to count them every day it us working well for me.

i saw my dietician yesterday and she said between 1500- 1700 calories is good for me depending on my exercise levels that day been though my maintenance is 2200 if have over 1700 she said i wont see much loss.

people in this group took the time to explain things to me to help me understand things and i appreciate you all so much i was really having difficulty with it.

it is not easy to learn nutrition ad weight loss for everyone.

thanks so much for your help.

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An embarrassing benefit from my weight loss

For the longest time I (28F) developed an issue with incontinence. Nothing serious, but my underwear would always smell like pee at the end of the day. I was too embarrassed to even tell my doctor about it. It definitely made me totally opposed to the thought of having sex at all with somoene.

I don't have any other urogenital issues - I am pretty sure it was just all my excess weight pushing on my bladder.

Now that I'm almost 40 pounds down, I'm not having the issue at all anymore!!!

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Apprehension to seeing family again

First off, I just want to say how much I appreciate this community for being here as a shoulder to lean on. My life is quite lonely, and I’ve been on this journey by myself since 2021, off and on. It’s hard to talk to other people about how it feels to lose weight and adapt better habits when no one else in my small circle is doing that.

Down to business: Been away from home since September, at college. Lost 7 pounds in the first month and a half between exercise and eating habits (I guess). Stopped going to the gym regularly over the last month due to stress and being so tired all the time (sleeping has not been great for a myriad of reasons). Started binging again (no gym/exercise leads me to binge). Gained a few pounds back, body feels different. Haven’t gone this long without exercising before. Now I am feeling bad about my body, and reflecting on myself for my poor food choices and coping mechanism. Trying to be easier on myself, but it’s hard when all I can think about is going home for the break (next month) and my family seeing me and not seeing a drastic change.

I didn’t always want that. I came here just hoping I didn’t gain all the weight back. (Which was also something I was told by family, repeatedly) And I haven’t. I’m still less than what I was.

While I am getting back into my gym/exercise routine now, I know it is not realistic to lose 20 pounds in one month. And I feel so bad about myself that I “did this wrong.” Last month I was dealing with so much stress and so many sleepless nights due to that stress and anxiety, that I can’t blame myself for not doing all the “right things.” I did the best I could. But how do I accept that forgiveness to myself so I can stop feeling so bad?

(Also if anyone has tips for managing stress while in college, please let me know. I can’t sleep through the night anymore…)

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Monday, November 21, 2022

Cattiness in Zumba is getting to me and I left class early. Long due to rant.

So. I've been going to this class, along with others, faithfully for several months. I love the instructor, I love her music and I love her choreography. I do not love the women in the front row. The instructor appears to be good friends with them and they hang out outside of class. I would think that's great if it didn't feel so alienating in the gym. These women are not welcoming. They look through everyone who is not in the front row and will not socialize with anyone else even if they try to say hello. I know from experience. There have been some fatphobic comments that made me feel gross, as someone who is far away from the loss goal. Some get there half an hour before class starts and they mark the entire front row with their belongings until the rest of the women get there. They will speak loudly about people getting too close to them in other classes, which is a valid issue to complain about, but the way it is said comes off as very passive aggressive. I used to bring my 9 year old with me but she noticed the vibe before I did and she won't come anymore. I tried to tell her not to worry about them and it seems I can't take my own advice!

I didn't go for the last 2 weeks, partially due to being busy and I consistently feel angry during that particular class. I went back tonight to give it another shot and get back to more intense routines. Immediately, it was the same bullshit. I got there 15 minutes early, once again nobody but the same women were allowed up front because spots were saved. The instructor turned on some very old songs from like 2 years ago and she and the front row women started dancing to them. The rest of us didn't know what to do and the 2 women next to me expressed how weird they felt. We agreed that they make us feel out of place. Class officially starts and I'm in the 2nd row. The instructor asked everyone in the 2nd row to move forward by a few feet so the people in the back could spread out. No big thing, I did it.

Except, I was behind one of the women who talks about needing her space but she kept getting into mine. She had 6 feet in front of her to dance forward when it was time, I had half that because of the space she was taking up. Okay, I took smaller steps and took up less space. We had a few new songs and the instructor and front row divas were the only ones who knew each one by heart, I'm assuming they do them while they're hanging out or after classes when the rest of us leave. That doesn't bother me too much, but the eye rolls when the rest of us don't know what we are doing on the first try are a bit much. Finally, we were on another new song. The intro was a little tricky and the woman in front of me came very close to running into me twice. I was trying to get my bearings after the first time and figure out what I was supposed to be doing and then suddenly she was within a foot of the front of my body. Before I realized what I had just done, I flipped my hand in her direction, said "whatever" and left 10 minutes early.

Part of me feels like an idiot and part of me is glad I realized that i just don't belong there. I go to 2 other instructors' classes in the same 2 facilities and their atmosphere is completely different. Nobody saves spots for people who are not there, everyone says hi and is friendly, the instructors don't give anyone special attention unless there's a fitness concern. I feel like i was unintentionally rude to the instructor. I really like her. Her friend getting in my space and the rest of them behaving like The Plastics isn't her fault. I do think she could ask them to stop saving spots or maybe have everyone rotate to mix it up a little. I probably shouldn't go there anymore, i feel like I can't show my face there after that. I'm sure only like 3 people noticed what I did and maybe nobody thought anything of it. I know nobody heard me, I didn't say it loudly and the music was at a high volume. People aren't paying as much attention to us as we think they are.

If I felt it would do any good, I would politely bring it up to the instructor but I just don't see it solving any problems. I can't tell a group of friends that their clique needs to dissolve, I can't make them be kind or inclusive. That space just is not for me and it really hurts to say it out loud. I needed to air my embarrassment and my frustration with people in zumba classes who feel they own the front row and behave as though everyone behind them is invisible. I deserve to take up my fair share of space, I deserve to feel that I belong where I am, I deserve to screw up a dance move without getting an eye roll or a side eye. I deserve to move to the front row one day if I want to. We are all in the gym or studio, we can share like adults. For anyone who may have actually read this, thank you. I feel like I need to preemptively defend myself for some reason, I'm irrationally afraid I'm going to be ripped apart. I'm still going to my hands down favorite class in the morning and I can't wait.

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I've lost 20kg (44lbs), 80kg (176lbs) to go

Hey! This is my first post and right now I don't feel like posting real life update pictures. I'm a 23y/o 6'1 guy whose max weight was 182kg / 400lbs. I'm now at 160kg / 350lbs.

In the last month, I've lost around 11kg / 24lbs. I don't know how, but it feels like there has been a switch flipped that finally makes it even kinda easy to lose weight.

Its so much easier than I could've ever imagined. I tried so many times before and always failed but now it's just working. I do eat below 1000 calories a day and walk around 10k steps. In the morning i drink a coffee with barista oat milk. I do eat a lot of vegetables and fruits now instead of toast, pasta and once or twice a week Mcdonalds. I only drink water (except for the coffee obv and tea sometimes), only on rare occasions i drink soda, mostly sugar free. I do eat between 9:00 and 17:00 I feel like for some reason the oat milk coffee is the answer to all my questions haha. It makes me far less hungry for the whole day. CICO really seems to work very well. I'll surely post some update pictures in the future! Thanks for reading, I only wanted to share my first milestones.

Progress images (only weight documentation)

Screenshots

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i cant stay in a calorie deficit

Hey! for background info, i am a 18F that is 5'5 and ≈ 186-187 pounds. My BMI just hit 30 and im developing a few stretch marks so its time to lose some pounds. 3 weeks ago i started a deficit, but my boyfriend and i get take out a lot and its really hard to me to pick low calorie food options. i always end up binge eating, and going over my calorie limit. i cant hit the gym because i currently have mono and my spleen is enlarged and my doctor said no physical activity. can i still lose weight with a calorie deficit? and is it possible to still lose weight if getting takeout/fast food? sorry if this sounds dumb.

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Tips for keeping to a diet away from home?

I've been counting calories daily for 3 months now and I'm glad to be able to say I'm down 36lbs (with a lot more to go) as of yesterday.

However, I am going to be staying at a friend's for 5 days which includes the mother of all eating holidays Thanksgiving as well as a birthday which means a lot of food in my friend group. Staying with them usually involves a lot of take out/ restaurants.

I feel I might struggle with binging while I'm there even though I know the obvious answer is portion control. Any tips to avoid a bad week?

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Meal Prep Tips (Your future self will thank you)

I’ve been meal prepping for about 3 months now and it is a game changer. I cook 15-20 servings total on the weekends and my husband and I are set for the week (I have lunch provided by my employer so we only need 3 servings per weekday). It saves me so much stress and time in the evenings.

I try to aim for 3-4 different meals each week so we don’t get bored and want to eat out instead. My goal is under 550 calories per serving with at least 30 g of protein. Here is my basic process:

Get the protein going first since it usually cooks the longest. Weigh everything out before you cook so you get accurate macros. I do marinated sous vide chicken breasts, pulled pork, beef roast, or shredded chicken breast in the instant pot. While the meat is cooking, chop your veggies and roast on a sheet pan. Measure your oil exactly and toss the veggies so they don’t stick. I usually do a large batch of zucchini and another tray of peppers and onions. Next, cook your sides. Usually a big pot of rice (weighed before cooking of course), mashed potatoes, or protein pasta.

Last, prep your sauces or toppings (for example sour cream and guacamole in a small parchment baking cup, chopped green onions, shredded cheese).

When everything is done and cooled a bit, you can portion it out, starting with carbs on the bottom.

I know by now that 45g of uncooked rice usually weighs 115g once cooked. But at first I’d dump it all in a bowl, weigh it, and figure out the weight per serving.

For the meat, weigh the cooked recipe and divide by how many servings you originally weighed (usually 4 oz uncooked per serving). For example, 2 lbs chicken breast is 8 servings. Once cooked, it will weigh less. I use grams for this step because it’s easier to divide. Zero out your scale, pull out a serving, then zero again.

Finally top with sauces and condiments.

I find that doing everything on the weekend saves me decision fatigue and means less dishes through the week.

Here are some of our favorites:

-Chicken satay with Peanut Sauce over Rice (with roasted peppers and onions)

-Lemon Feta orzo with Chicken and Spinach

-Protein Pasta with Red Sauce and Meatballs

-Shredded Green Chile Chicken with Sazon Rice, Black Beans, Cheese, and Sour Cream

-Italian Roast Beef over Cheese Grits with Brocolli

-Pulled Pork over Mashed potatoes with Roasted Zucchini

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Top rice weight loss diet Tips

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