F/31/5’6 SW: 250 CW: 208 😳
hi folks! long-time lurker, first-time caller, made this account solely for fitness/weight loss stuff. I’ve lost over 40 lbs so far, just from CICO and occasionally walking. i started last may, but fell off and maintained through the holidays/my birthday and started back up in march.
preface: i don’t necessarily enjoy getting randomly hit on, but back in 2019 i had a (very thin) friend visiting me from out of town and she had so. many. men. hitting on her, just constantly, and it made me realize that this hadn’t happened to me in years. whatever, i’m not mad about it! but i’d kinda realized that i wasn’t ~conventionally attractive~ anymore and that i wasn’t as many peoples “type” as i was when i was a size 4. still okay! i never had difficulty finding romantic partners regardless.
ANYWAY. today i went to the grocery store and put in my headphones like i usually do (AuDHD – the headphones help me not get overwhelmed/stay on track/music is fun). i think i looked goofy as hell (i am not fashionable), but i notice a lot of people looking at me longer than they usually do. probably because i look goofy. but in the produce section, a man walks past me and says something. i take off my headphones and say “what?” and he said “oh nothing, i just said how’s your day going?” initially i thought he worked there bc it’s not uncommon for the employees to make small talk, so we made small talk, but then he said “you’re very beautiful – are you single?” i laughed and said no, he said “lucky man” and we continued about our shopping.
it was just a nice confidence boost and a reminder that i’ve made significant progress 🥲 but i’m not done yet! hang in there y’all!!
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