This post is dedicated to those who have been chipping away, making progress, but haven't gotten one f-ing compliment.
(37F: SW 186, CW 165, GW 125) I know talking about someone's weight is an invitation to insert foot in mouth....but I feel like (my) family members are quick to let you know when you've gained a few lbs (even when you haven't). BUT they can never offer a compliment when you're looking good or making improvements. I hosted fam for Thanksgiving and they have seen me at my heaviest about 3 months back. Do you think they said one positive thing during the holiday?!?!? Nope. I know people can't really notice 5-10lbs lost, but 20! Come on...not one compliment?!?
So if no one has told you, I will. You're doing great. The small changes you're making everyday day adding up to big results. Keep it up! You look good!
Note: this is not for those odd few who don't want anyone to comment on your appearance. I'm not asking for or inviting that awkward conversation about diet and exercise with your co-workers. Just for a family member or a friend who sees you regularly to say something nice and encouraging.
[link] [comments]
source https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/comments/r5fyr7/pat_id_like_to_buy_a_compliment/
No comments:
Post a Comment