We’ve been dating for 6 months and it was online. We met through the college app during covid and once school was done he moved back to his home town with his family, a few hours from here. We’ve been wanting to meet for awhile especially since he just got his driver license not long ago.
I’ve always been open and honest about my weight but I didn’t tell him my struggles as i was embarrassed. Lately ive been working out, losing weight, eating better, really feel like I could do it this time. I was hesitant on waiting to meet him or to meet him with my struggles present. I told him that I was tired of being a prisoner of my own body and that I wanted to go out and have fun and meet him.
I said that I have been struggling with mobility but I’d love to meet him despite it. Even though I can walk and go places, I’d have to take breaks and maybe sit more than stand. But idk if he thought I can’t move or what, I told him I still could, but I just have some difficulties. But he pretty much said that the things he wanted to do with me would at least need some form of mobility (which I have) and he didn’t want to wait for an “idealized version” of me since weight loss can take a long time.
It honestly just sucks how he broke up with me because of this. Heartbreaking actually. I could tell he was withdrawn for a little while before this but wasn’t sure why. But he said he didn’t want to be in a relationship with me because of this and him just not feeling it anymore.
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