Anyone else holding off on getting pregnant until they lose a large amount of weight?

I'm 32 and pretty keen to have babies soon, but I'm too scared to have them at my current weight (105kg) for fear I'll be even bigger and no clothes will fit! :(

However, struggling to get into the mindset to lose it for this reason.. especially with covid peaking again. I need to lose about 30-40kg before I'll feel a healthy enough weight.. and I guess allow for a buffer to put at least 15kg on once pregnant.

Anyone been in a similar situation? If so, what helped you get in the right mind frame to lose it? I don't even know if I can fall pregnant as women in our family have a history of issues.. so I really need to get my motivation sorted. Hoping this doesn't offend anyone.. my husband just doesn't understand and I don't really have anyone I can talk to about it.

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