I'm curious to see if your partner has ever treated you different after you lost weight, in a positive or negative way?
A guy I am dating says he likes my body but I am slightly skeptical seeing as I am obese. I just wonder myself if losing this weight (which I was doing before I met him), would cause him to be more attracted to me in the long run, if/when we settle into a relationship and the honeymoon phase wears off. He goes to the gym alot but looks visibly overweight. His ex was also at least a normal BMI, if very slightly athletic. This is making me feel kind of skeptical that he will be attracted to me at a BMI of 34 for a petite woman. I'm not insecure, but I've seen so many stories of redditors losing weight and their spouses or partners getting more attracted and excited, and I think if we get into a relationship that would be so cool if it happened, especially since wether he sticks around or not, I will continue losing the weight.
What's your experience? :)
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