Hello everybody,
This is my first post ever but I get inspirations from this subreddit all the time. This post is not about how I have lost weight or my struggle with losing weight but more about how to handle mental health during hurtful situations.
I will keep it as short as possible. I was on a trip for last few days with family. We also had a 5 year old - Sia with us who is my sister-in-laws daughter. My relationship with Sia is very precious to me, we both adore each other and she showers love towards me every-time we meet, she is a sweetheart.
While returning back I was sitting next to her in the back seat and was reading her a book. I am not sure what made her say that but she said “YOU ARE TOO BIG”, I replied “I KNOW”, not to mention her parents and my husband were in the car but no one reacted and that moment passed within seconds.
But my mind just can’t get over that moment, I am struggling and crying the whole day today and was not able to sleep as well. I feel like shit and dint want to express this to anyone else coz no one understands what I am going through better than you guys.
I would have handled it in a very different way if it was an adult as I have done that before but a 5 year old who I love so much said something which is very hurtful even though it’s true. No idea how to make peace with my mind now.
To anyone who wants to know, I am 5.2 and 175lbs currently. I think that is BIG :(
Thanks for being so kind and reading my post.
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