So I’m [18f] (please don’t tell me to move out, I live in a third world country and it’s not easy or normal to move out after highschool like the US) and my mom used to mock me a lot.
She used to mock me a lot since I was like 6 or 7 for being fat and she toned it down a bit when I got older. The problem is that now she is starting to do it again now that I’m done with my last year of highschool and approaching marriageable age ( not for me, but for this shitty culture)
So I had gotten some soda ( I know it’s wrong and I sort of just thought of it as okayish since I haven’t officially started) so then she started yelling at me when she saw it and she started telling me how pathetic I am and that I should look at girls my age. That she visited our relatives and they had really pretty and thin girls and she felt bad because she only had me.
My problem is that she is making me feel like shit which I promise has never ever helped me lose weight and she never once mentioned my health. She just brings up my looks and when I feel like shit I just end up binging so this is making it harder on me.
Also in the past even when I was trying to lose weight. I would have off days and bing and feel bad. When that happens the normal thing is to keep going but if she catches me, she just screams at me and she keeps reminding me of how I binged which makes me feel like I can never do well.
So how do I deal with this? I’m really sensitive so this is sort of making me cry.
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