I've lost 22 pounds so far, and it's going great, ups and downs and all that stuff, but I've come to think about what happens after I lose the weight. My friend group is pretty diverse when it comes to body type, but i am always known as the "thickest" (oh god that sounds cringey out loud haha) but I'm always known for being the one everyone lays on because I'm so soft, and my boyfriend is always admiring my legs and butt, but that's going to go away if I lose all the weight right? They are all super happy for whatever path I choose since it's my body, but is it weird that I know I'm going to miss things like that? Maybe it's because in that aspect I feel like being the fat one in my friend group just became a huge part of who I am, and I'm kinda terrified that I wont be anybody to them once the fat is gone. Is that crazy? I dont know. It feels kinda stupid to say out loud, but I dont want to lose them I guess. Maybe its just my anxiety talking. Does anyone feel the same, or have any advice on how to overcome this fear?
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