Im 19, 5’6 and 125 pounds. I’ve worked HARD to get here, and it breaks my heart when men call me thick. They’re usually boys on tinder who are trying to flirt or compliment me, and whenever someone calls me thick I actually nearly burst into tears. It’s depressing, I think I look good but I associate the word thick with fat. I’ve had many guys say I was “definitely not skinny” or that I “had some extra weight in the right places”, after my weightloss. It could be the way I’m shaped. I’m naturally very curvy with a smaller waist. I get so many disgusting comments about the way I look. So many men are perverted and it makes me feel like less of a human. Thinking about all of those comments make me cry. It’s ruining my chances at dating because I’m so sensitive about the way I look. I’ve had so many falling outs with guys because they thought I was overreacting or too sensitive whenever they made a comment towards my body. My self esteem is at an all time low, I just want the world to see me as thin.
P.S. I’m sorry if this isn’t the right place to post this, idk where else to go. Does anyone know other subreddits that would be a good help?
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