Ok story time. So I just started my journey so there is nothing to hate or even see that has changed about me, but this is something that happend to my best friend. She began loosing weight in March or April and hit her ideal weight a few weeks ago. Although i was a little bit envious i never ever put her down and always tried to tell her "good job" when she showed me her recent milestone. But as we all know not everyone is so kind.
She sometimes streams on twitch and wanted to do a cosplay of one of the game characters she was playing atm in her next stream. Nothing too fancy, but it was really cute and she tried her best. So what happend was, she posted a picture of her in the cosplay in her moderator whatsapp chat. And one of them didnt like it. Conversation went like this (roughly translated from german): (F= my friend; MM= Male moderator)
MM: Sorry but i really dont like how you look. You look sunken in.
(Some other mods dis or agreeing with him)
F: It's your opinion wich is fine. But i gotta tell you, one should not say such things. You could keep them to yourself. Since u can see on other pics i do not look "sunken in" as you call it.
MM: So what you're saying is, its not allowed to have opinions about you?
F: no, what i am saying is, that opinions about my weight(loss) that i didnt even asked for are inappropiate. I just wanted to show the cosplay i will be wearing today...
...this went on and on for a long time. Basically she was not able to convince them that what he was doing wasnt ok. I was just furious the whole time she was sending me screencaps as it went down.
It just baffles my mind but got me thinking how i would react in this situations. Did something like that happen to you? How did you guys handle it? Did it went well or horrible? I really wanna hear you stories!
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