I know people will say you should love your body no matter what, and I do. I love the things it does for me, the way it supports me, makes me stay healthy and all that, but for years I tried to like my fat arms and my fat thighs but it's just not possible for me. I don't like how they look so I can't really say I like them and just uncover them. Even home alone I'm not comfortable with having my arms and legs out.
Again, I do thank them for doing what they do, but showing them - no, not happening. It's seriously impossible to just show them. I also don't have a problem hiding them for as long as I have to, it's more of a social pressure to be 'normal' and show my arms that makes me feel shitty.
And I also heard the 'If you're not comfortable with them now, you also won't be when you lose weight.' Why should I be comfortable with them now? Who would be? They're enormous, heavy and not pretty to me. So when I lose the weight I will like them, because that's how I want them to look. I really don't get it.
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