Hi party people,
I have recently lost 20kg (44 pounds) by completely rehauling my lifestyle. I used to be massively unhappy about my body so already feeling much better.
I have noticed a weird thing though. When I was fat, I was meeting a lot of guys for quick sex and didn't have any issues. I still thought my body was gross but somehow didn't mind that much. Now, when I am much lighter and already better looking I feel embarrassed to go wild on Grindr.
I think it's because I know that while I lost fat, I still need at least 2-3 years to build muscles to get the body I want. The problem is of course, that I don't want to wait another 3 years to meet up with someone/ feel good in my body - especially that it's likely that in 3 years I will want an even more muscular body and, essentially, will reach that point of satiation. Anything similar happened to you? How did you get over it?
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