22 M 6’1 Sw: 285, CW 175. Im just curious if anyone else has this problem. I always hated the way I looked but I always had hope that if i just lost the weight I would suddenly be super handsome and women would like me. Now that I lost the weight I still have all the same problems dating ( I made a post on dating advice if you want more context on that) and I honestly hate the way I look now too.
Instead of fat I have really bad loose skin on my stomach, I still have stretch marks, my man boobs never fully went away and my face is still ugly. I’m starting to lose motivation to keep it off. I mean I would rather be alone eating Taco Bell and Cheetos then be alone eating plain chicken breast with rice but I don’t want to ruin my progress because I found a career I like that forces me to be physically fit.
I feel like I’m some ways I do look better, I just feel like I went from a 2/10 to a 4/10. It sucks to know that I will never be as good looking as I would be if I was just never fat. I didn’t even really have a choice either, I was fat by age 11 because my whole family is obese. I’m also kinda resentful of my family because I feel like they made me fat and didn’t teach me healthy habits but I don’t want to feel that way.
I guess I just needed to rant and see if anyone else is dealing with the same things I am. Did anyone else think losing weight would fix their problems but only made them worse ? Did you find a way to be happy with your appearance ?
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