It has very little to do with my body image, confidence, or most of the logistics of being over weight. I love my body, I really do. I don’t hate myself for being fat. I don’t agonize over love handles or double chins. My body has taken me through every life experience I hold dear, and to hate my body would be disrespectful.
The real reason I want to lose weight is to have better sex. I’m a 23 year old bisexual polyamorous kinkster living in San Francisco. I have a healthy, active sex life and I have no problem finding partners who respect me, as I am, and value my pleasure when we have sex.
But too often, I find myself unable to perform sex acts that I want to do! I want to be on top or give an enthusiastic blow job without getting worn out. I don’t want to be a passive “pillow princess”, I want to give my partners pleasure the way they give pleasure to me. I want to take sexy pictures to send to partners without agonizing over the angle or rearranging clothes. I want to be able to buy sexy clothes that aren’t advertised as “Pin-Up style” that also come with a $80 price tag for a single piece.
I know that loosing weight will not automatically make these things easier, but it’s definitely a start in the right direction for me.
My routine: I’ve being using MFP to track calories and CICO since late February 2020. I started with 1400 cals a day, but now I allow myself 1300 and usually only reach 1200. I started going for intense walks around my hilly San Francisco neighborhood in mid-March. I started weighting myself everyday mid-April. I started taking body measurements of my neck, waist, and hips last week (1 inch decrease on all three parts since Monday of last week). I’m lost 30 ponds!
Thanks for reading through. Good luck to all of you.
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