Down 83lbs and 30lbs to go.
This is something that I am struggling with. It has now happened a few times and I am wondering if anyone can relate or give some advice.
The most recent guy who done this, we dated for 6 weeks. He seemed super into me but overnight he just became distant. Shortly after, he told me there was 'no spark' between us. I was disappointed but there was nothing I could do. I told him I understood and tried to move on. I definitely felt a spark so I assumed he met someone else or just wasn't attracted to me. To me, 'spark' means sexual attraction.
When we were seeing each-other, I was down 50-55lbs. I have now lost a further 30lbs+ and I posted a picture to my instagram a few weeks ago. This guy has started to contact me again and just asked me out yesterday. I told him I would have to think about it.
I don't know what to do. I understand that everyone has a preference but he kinda strung me along for 6 weeks if he wasn't attracted to me or he was just waiting for something 'better' to come along. I did like him but I hate the idea that I am now only suddenly good enough for him. Can anyone relate or share a similar story?
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source https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/comments/el3xhu/people_who_rejected_me_are_now_interested_after/
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