Does anyone else struggle with this thought? I'm currently 305 lbs and have been obese my entire life since a young child. I've only had the perspective of a fat person who's dealt with the stereotype struggles of being bullied, lack or complete absence of romantic interest, low self-esteem, etc. Surely not everyone has had my experience, but these are mine.
Nonetheless, I keep hearing that it's important to enjoy the journey and not be so focused on finally living life when I lose the weight. But with all that I've been through (and currently going through now) it's hard to imagine that the person that I am now deserves any of that. Like since being fat has caused so many negative things throughout my life I won't be deemed fully as a person until I reach my goal weight. Only then will I really get to experience life. Am I just reacting to how others have treated me or is this some inner problem? How can I change this and is it even possible?
I would love to hear other's thoughts and experience on this matter.
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