Hi, I’m new to this subreddit and want some advice. I’m an 18 year old male. I used to weigh 240lbs but now I’m down to 180lbs. All my life I have been the fat friend. When all my friends were going on dates and getting boyfriends and girlfriends I was sitting next to them giving them advice on how to talk to them and get into a relationship. I was never told I was attractive, not even by my parents, they would tell me that I would be cute if I lost xyz but I had a cute face. I’m also gay, so the dating world is even more limited and exclusive. It’s basically boils down to if you don’t have abs don’t try to talk to me. So I never grew up with the notion that I was cute. I simply focusing on building up my personality and humor so that people would gravitate to me that way. It worked for a while until I got depressed. Then I didn’t talk people stopped talking to me as much and I felt like an ugly looser. I started to loose weight at the beginning of the school year, but my motivation has stayed the same “get abs get dick.” I simply want others to find me attractive and hot. I want to feel like an objectified sex doll walking down the street. I want people to barras me on the street and beep their cars when I run shirtless. I don’t know if this is a healthy mentality to have, but it’s something I crave because I’ve never had it.
Any advice would be helpful.
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