Idk if this is the right place for this, but it’s where I feel most comfortable posting it lol. I’m 22 311 pounds and 5’7. I did very casual and immature teenager dating when I was like 16/17 and I’ve had a few minor “dates” during my freshman year of college and beyond that I have no experience dating. I’m super insecure about my body to the point I wear long sleeve clothing 99% of the time regardless of the weather. I’ve pretty much told myself I’ll date and wear what I want when I am skinny. Unfortunately for me I didn’t give a real shot at losing weight until now so I’ve basically been single forever and I’m not really living my life.
My goal weight is 150 give or take 10lbs and I know I’ll need loose skin surgery afterwards which I’m already saving for. However this entire process will likely take several years and I don’t want to be 25/26 and just getting into dating and living my life. For what it’s worth and at the risk of sounding like a dick I guess I have a pretty face and I’ve gotten matches on dating sites and asked out (not a ton but to a point I guess) however I’ve never went through with it because I’m just so insecure about them seeing my body. Any advice on what I should do? Should I wait a few months until more of the weight is off which I feel like will help maybe? I have a ton of stretch marks, loose skin, cellulite, etc so I just don’t feel like I’d be comfortable with someone seeing me, but I don’t want to wait years before I actually try to live my life??
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