So I’ve been trying to lose the last 35 lbs or so. I’m 5’2” and 156 lbs currently but I’ve lost 80 lbs. For months I’ve been trying to lose the last of the weight but I feel like my bf is trying to get me to not to. He drinks about twice a week and he would push to get me to drink with him, ease me into taking one shot and then I’d end up binging and him giving me more drinks. I’ve also been trying to make healthier food choices and stick to a calorie limit but he insists on eating unhealthy food and that my calorie limit is unhealthy. It’s 1200 since I’m short, but he says I’ll end up gaining on that since I’m staving my body. Which isn’t true because I’ve lost 80 doing that. He says I’m already skinny and that my chub is just loose skin. And that eating unhealthy some days isn’t gonna mess me up. Is he just pushing this and saying these things because he’s insecure? He’s overweight himself and eats fast food most days. I’ve tried to get him to lose weight with me, he says he’s interested but he’s really not that dedicated. How do I solve this issue? Every time I say no he keeps pushing it and I feel bad. I just want to lose the rest of the weight for my mental and physical health, I’ve been obese the majority of my life. Any advice?
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