I met this guy 6 months ago on reddit, after 3 months of chatting on and off (a first for me, I'm not the patient type) we met up and he left a great impression. In the 3 months since we haven't been able to meet up due to lock downs but we've kept in contact pretty regularly the whole time. There are a lot of red flags so this was never going to be anything more than casual sex but on the whole he's pretty fun.
A couple nights ago we were chatting and got onto the topic of body goals. I mentioned that I was currently loosing weight and building muscle, using lockdown to really fuel things I've been putting off for a long time. When we met I was about 12kg heavier than I am now, and because I'm 120kg other people can't really notice that much. But I'm maintaining a loss of 2-3kg every 3 weeks and I've been happy with that.
Suddenly he seemed so much more interested in me, wanting to dedicate more time to us hanging out together, locking in plans of what we would do when lockdown ends, letting me know how excited he is to see me and how I make him feel. Honestly it kinda feels like he's treating me like someone who will eventually be thinner and thus he should invest more time. Before he was happy to chat a couple times a week and do some flirting and now he wants daily sexting.
Last time I lost a significant amount of weight I got way more attention and it really hit me hard that the people now chatting me up at the shops wouldn't look twice a few months earlier. Now it feels like the same thing. He's suddenly interested because he sees I'm serious about getting fitter and by the time lockdown ends in a few months I'll look very different. I feel upset but at the same time it kinda feels stupid to be upset when I havent even lost the weight yet.
Have any of you dealt with this?
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