I am about 60 lbs overweight and a young woman. I have began dating a guy for almost 2 months. If it matters, based on pics he is the biggest he has ever been. If a man with a 6 pack came around and offered to be with me, id say no cuz I like him. Now hes never done anything to make me feel insecure or call us casual. We want the same thing and despite sparse texting, we been on 4 dates and things r going well.
I am losing weight (have so before I met him), and I can't help but feel that I could be replaced by someone thinner and prettier. Not just by him, but anyone I would be dating. I do feel quite a bit of pressure to lose weight even faster than I am because I feel like since I am so early in the dating stages and have never been in a relationship, I feel like I could be replaced so I need to lose the weight. I know I'd look better with a less bloated face and feel better. But their are hundreds of normal weight women of my beauty equivalent that I feel like will be replaced with me.
Has anyone ever had this fear? It keeps me from binging in fear that i wont lose the weight....
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