I have been trying to lose weight for a little over a year now. I have had quite a few ups and downs, but have managed to shed and keep off about 30 pounds. I have recommitted to being more active and I am going to the gym 4 times a week now. Unfortunately, my trips to the gym have me feeling very discouraged. I see all these guys there with perfect bodies and I just know that I will never have a body like that. I like sweets and way too much to ever had six pack abs. At best, I'll probably be "skinny fat" like I was when I first lost a significant amount of weight. My trips to the gym just feel utterly pointless. What's the point of putting in all this work if I'm still going to have a bunch of flab and still feel like a blob? My misgivings are compounded by the fact that I am gay. Even after 30 pounds lost, no one gives me the time of day either online or in real life. Only a six pack will turn heads apparently, and I already know I will never get there. The more I go the gym the more I feel like giving up because I know I will never be like those perfect guys.
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