My husband has been commenting on my weight for years, he's made it clear he is unhappy with how heavy I am. I weighed myself and I am at my highest ever weight, 270lbs at 5'6". I was shocked so I decided to try weight watchers again. The last time I tried Keto, which worked but was too unsustainable in the end. WW isn't so rigid that I will have to cook separate meals for me and my family.
My husband noticed I switched from whole milk to 2%, bought light cream cheese etc...I was buying all full fat dairy, skin on chicken before. He rolled his eyes, "ANOTHER diet?!" Why all low fat? On the last diet fat was good?
I told him yes, he is always asking me to lose weight so I'm trying. He said its simple. Just cut down my portions and stop eating junk, then exercise like crazy. Nothing else will work in his opinion, he doesn't understand why I keep trying diets and tracking my food. If I could just properly portion my meals and not give in to junk with no structure or support I wouldn't be this big in the first place!
Then he started quizzing me. "So which is it? Is fat good or bad? How can you prove Weight Watchers is the right way to eat? Just stop the diets and cut your portions or you'll big forever"
I am at a loss, maybe he is right and WW is a scam. Maybe he is wrong and I'll lose weight again. Either way I just wish I had his support in this. It feels lose, lose. Whether I'm trying to lose weight or not he isn't happy with what I'm doing. Maybe he just doesn't like it when I say no to getting fast food and junk food with him...
Is it really just as easy as no tracking, no diets, just cut my portions but I'm just too lazy to do it?
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