I’m male, 17, and weigh approximately 250lbs at 5’10/11”. I have a very large belly and extremely large moobs. I’ve been trying to lose weight now and could really lose your help.
Some extra info: I play games, love watching films, and (unsurprisingly) hate exercise. Where I live, I have enough room to do some running even during quarantine.
I don’t think I am ugly as a person (without the weight), but my weight has made me extremely insecure and made me more introverted than I’d like to be. I dated a girl for one month 2 (almost 3) years ago but felt too nervous and broke things off because I felt I was too immature to be with her. In reality, I felt that she would grow to hate me for my weight.
I am more secure about myself as a person on a mental level now (or at least try to be). I’m very introverted most of the time, but can occasionally be outgoing.
I’ve had at least somewhat of a weight issue since around 5th grade. My body has only gotten worse since and I’ve felt more embarrassed. My stomach has a bunch of stretch marks but the worst part is my moobs. I fucking hate those. They’re huge. It’s not even funny. I feel like I can never secure with myself with these giant things. It’s awful. I hate it.
That’s IMO the worst part. Going back to talking about women, I feel like I stand no chance against other guys. I can never take my shirt off without seeing the enlarged useless milk sacks on me. With them, I could never see myself getting with a women.
And when I mean getting with a women, I don’t mean hooking up. I’ve personally never liked the idea. I’ve always wanted to be in a real relationship and to care for someone as much as they care for me, but I feel like in my current state it’s near impossible.
Now the reasons I want to lose weight are simple, and are the following: 1. I don’t want to live my whole life being the fat one 2. I feel like I could never get with a woman in my current state 3. I want to not hate my body anymore 4. I want to prove to people in my life I’m not lazy.
I’ve lost a few pounds recently (and have progress picks to prove they weren’t just water weight), but I’d really love to here what you guys think I should/can do during quarantine. Feel free to ask any questions. I’d love the help, or even just to talk.
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