I hated my sister so much that I lost weight

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ok so i am the youngest sister. i have a sister who is 8 years older than me, and a brother who is five years older. my dad used to be quite heavy, until he lost weight, and became very fatphobic. he bullied my sister into an unhealthy relationship with food, but i moved in with my mom before who got to me.

my sister had an awful relationship with food. she snuck it, binged, and pretended she didn’t. she wasn’t obese, but very overweight. she quickly began acting like my dad, and preaching health and whatever my dads crazy bullshit was for the week. she moved out to college, but it was a crappy state school as a communications major (not that there’s anything wrong with communications if you knew her tho 😳😳😳). i thought she was great and grown up and amazing until i was 13 and went to therapy for my parents messy divorce and realized i hated my sister. i hate her personality. she’s mean, and spiteful, and all around a bitchy person. I do not like her.

seeing how she was overweight, and an awful person with a shaky future, i decided to be the exact opposite of her. it was kind of a decision made out of spite, but one that i will stand by forever. I became self aware of myself, trying my best to be kind, understanding, and patient, all things that’s she’s not. of course i’ve failed sometimes, of course i snap, but my personality cannot be summed up with ‘bitchy’ and i’m thankful for that. I started losing weight, and decided my major, and have stuck to that. i have a perfectly planned future, i’m a healthy weight, and i love myself. All for not being like her.

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