I have never posted to reddit before but here we go! My current weight would be shocking for friends that haven’t seen me in a couple years. For the first time, I am turning down reunions, paid for houses, rides, plane tickets, and even FaceTimes because I can’t bear to let anyone see me like this.
I feel certain that the combo of my insecurity and their concerns for my health will overshadow everything. I would rather hunker down, work on myself and see them when I am good and ready.
So, the question is, am I caring for my personal mental health by not putting myself in a situation I know will eat my self esteem alive? Or am I missing out on life because no one really gives a shit about your weight? We are talking about 45 extra lbs on a 5’6 woman. GO!
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