I lost 120lbs from 280 to a healthy bmi in about a year, after being morbidly obese since 9 y/o. I saw so much about how it likely wouldn't be that bad after losing the weight, but it is... :( My breasts sag so badly they constantly hurt, even with a bra. I have no natural support at all. It's not severe pain, but it messes up my sleep. Hurts BAD in the cold too, winter has me terrified!!
I've seen some folks say men are more cool with it than you'd expect, but every single man near my age I've trusted enough to see me has been really turned off, even if he tried to hide it. One guy quietly pulled my shirt back down and sat back. Another freaked out and started treating me like a damn fallout ghoul. I do get being turned off by it, it's pretty unusual, but it hurts a lot...
I've given up on dating until I can afford to at least fix my chest. Though, by the time I have enough saved to do that, it'll be normal to be wrinkly. Maybe medical tourism when we're allowed to leave again :P Has anyone else had a hard time? Any practical advice? (not dating related, my self esteem reaaaally can't risk that blow again)
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