I’m currently on my weight loss journey as I posted here recently (now lost 33 pounds)
One point I made is I am partly doing this for a higher chance of dating girls. I’ll be honest I don’t bother going on dates because its always a no whenever I ask out a girl and I know it’s because of my obese self.
Because of this, I have insecurities about my self-worth asking myself why do I even bother talking to others if I can’t get a date. I had to decide to take initiative sooner or later about my weight. 33 pounds down and I feel more confident every day about my own self-improvement even if I still have a long way to go. Just yesterday a random guy at a gym gave me a thumbs up for pushing myself while doing curls. I still haven’t forgot about that person and think to myself that this will all be worth it soon.
I have to understand losing weight isn’t a guarantee of getting a date for any girl I talk to, but I know my odds will be higher if I lose a lot more weight, especially getting myself out of obesity. Would make a great ice-breaker.
How is the dating situation for your guys?
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source https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/comments/obg51r/how_was_the_dating_scene_improved_for_you_guys/
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