So, I (29, F) lost about 160 lbs from 2019 to 2020 and well, as a result I have a lot of loose skin. Pretty much all over my body, aside from my face, neck, hands, feet, calves and forearms.
I have a date tonight and while I haven't hidden my weightloss (I literally had a before and after on my profile) should I feel obligated to tell him about my skin? Ultimately, shouldn't this kind of stuff be secondary? I mean it's who I am... He will either accept it or he won't. I find the notion that I basically have to apologise for the way I look or warn people about it after I put so much work in a bit grotesque. No one is perfect. The reason I haven't mentioned it is because we haven't really talked about my weightloss and it simply hasn't come up.
But what do you guys think? Mention it or just own it and see what happens?
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