Since the age of 7 or so, I've noticed a nickname strangers use for me: "big guy". I've never been particularly tall (I'm 5'11") so it's not like I am a giant. I'm definitely not ripped either, so it's not that. It's a comment on my weight under a false guise of calling you like "buddy" or "pal" but I've never heard one of my short friends, tall friends, or skinny friends be called "big guy". It's always me, the fat dude.
People will argue they're just being friendly, it's bullshit. Commenting on someone's size isn't friendly, it's cutting, it hurts. I hope to never hear that fake friendly crap again.
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