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Weight Loss for Everyone: December 2019

Tuesday, December 31, 2019

I can never stick to it

18yo/5’6”/200lbs: every time I try to stick to a strict diet I usually cave within the month. It never changes. I’ve tried going to the gym every day. Splitting my meals by protein, fats and carbs. CICO diet. Getting enough sleep. And every time I fucking fail. Is it just not worth it? I am depressed everyday because it never happens. Cannot go out without feeling completely miserable. It’s humiliating. I live in the middle of no where now because my junkie mom decided to move us to a completely new town to get away from child services. I don’t know the area or the people. Can I get some help? Its fucking horrible.

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Losing weight for life (discouraged)

I regained a huge amount of weight over the last 7 years. More than what I had lost. Today as I was cleaning up some of the people that I followed, I looked through the pages of a lot of fitspo accounts I have followed over the years. Most of them have regained a lot of the weight they lost if not more. Some are morbidly obese and a few are fat activists now. It left me very discouraged because I am trying to lose the weight again and I fear that I will regain it again in the future. I’m scared that this will be my life.

Anyway, these are just some thoughts I had and just kind of wanted to vent and maybe get some tips on how I can lose weight for life this time. Maybe if anyone can share some motivation or accounts of people who have kept the weight off idk.

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115 lbs. down but still struggling & looking for advice.

I have completely transformed myself and lost 115 pounds since April of this 2019. I went from a size 4XL to a L/XL and have made an incredible difference in how I physically feel every day.

One thing I had not thought about, however, was the extra skin I was going to have after going through such a drastic change. I've been left with sagging skin on my stomach that rubs, is covered in stretch marks, and is uncomfortable. My chest feels saggy and deflated... something I was not worried about facing in my early twenties. I feel absolutely disgusting in my own skin, yet again, just in a whole new way.

I decided I wanted to consult with a plastic surgeon to see what could be done, and had my appointment this morning. I was cautiously optimistic and hung on to every encouraging word the doctor said until... she mentioned the cost of a procedure like that would end up being around $25,000. There is just absolutely no way I can afford anything close to that, and the news has left me binge-eating for the first time in 8 months.

Has anyone else gone through this post-weight loss depression? Has anyone found a way to make their skin removal surgery affordable? It's hard to explain these feelings to anyone who has not gone through them, and I don't know many people who have struggled through a huge weight loss. Any encouraging thoughts, words, or ideas are appreciated.

Happy New Year!

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My Decade Challenge and 500 lbs > 199 = 300 lbs lost journey, made it to Onederland!

https://imgur.com/gallery/Nu1pBCr

My short story: the 2010s weren’t kind to me and I dealt with depression and anxiety a lot. I used food cope with everything. I’ve always been big, at my heaviest i got to 500 lbs (see in my before pic 2013),

I started my journey in July 2016, started slow by just giving up soda, then junk food and smaller portions after that. Eventually started working out at home, lost around 175 lbs in the first year but had a couple ups and downs years after that.

This past year after gaining back about 35 lbs over a tough 2018 Holiday I got back to work. Started this year 290ish lbs, I felt those 35 lbs I put back on and didn’t like it at all. Motivated me to push my self again, finally got the courage to join and workout at the gym, fell in love with running. Recently got under for 200 lbs for the first time, it was my original goal and seeing the scale hit 199.6 (Onederland!) was a great feeling, it’s a number I don’t remember ever seeing, even as a kid.

I’m still hoping to lose 20ish more, it’s been really slow going lately but I still at it. Want to get some skin removal surgeries too, hoping I can start that journey in the year to come. :)

Thanks for reading, Happy New Year and good luck to everybody on their journeys in the new decade

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New year, new you. You CAN do this

Years ago, I was dreading January 1st. The idea of stepping on a scale for the first time in forever and really holding myself accountable was terrifying. That first step changed my life.

I’m down roughly 90lbs from my starting weight and have never felt better. Here are a few things that helped me along the way.

1.) Start small. I had tried losing weight before more times than I can count and I always went too hard too fast and eventually burned myself out. Maybe January you simply look at your diet and add physical activity in come February.

2.) Get comfortable at the gym. When I started at the gym, I was CLUELESS. I couldn’t have told you the difference between a dumbbell and a bench. I liked to get an elliptical and spend my time there noticing other people using machines. This was an easy way to get an idea of how machines worked without having to stand in front of it looking clueless and lost for 10 minutes.

3.) Talk to a personal trainer. Most gyms will let the trainers give you at least 1 free sessions. This is another great way to get comfortable with new equipment.

4.) Take pictures! Yes, even if you don’t think you look different that week. Yes, even if you missed a workout that week. Yes yes yes. You can thank me later.

I’m sending you all the positive vibes I can muster. You got this! 💪

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New Years Resolution TW: Eating Disorder

I’m sure lots of people are having the same resolution as mine, but to me, this resolution means a lot.

I’ve always been self-conscious about my weight. As a child, I was never at a normal weight. My heaviest being 192 at just 12 years old. During that time I was, and still am, 5’2.

When I entered high school, I developed an eating disorder. I was never diagnosed because I hid it from my family, but I now recognize what it was. I counted calories religiously. I only ate 500 calories or less a day, and exercised vigorously at least 1 hour every day with no rest (sometimes 2 hours). I dropped 70 pounds in 6 months this way.

There were days where I was literally starving. I always had a headache, and sometimes my hands would tremble. I continued these same restrictions up until I entered college. My new bf (now fiance) noticed how poorly I was eating and practically coached me into eating more. I was hesitant at first, but I followed his word and started eating normally. I gained a few pounds but I was finally healthy.

The stress from college, and the grief I am currently under after my father passed away, has caused me to gain all the weight I lost. I went from having anorexic tendencies to binge eating whenever I experienced any emotional disdain. In the last 2 years I gained back 70 pounds.

Not only has it put a strain on my confidence, but my relationship. My fiancé loves me just the same, but my lack of confidence has effected my mood for intimacy. I just think about the way I look and immediately get put off. He says he isn’t bothered by this but I know it may be effecting him in some way.

My new years resolution is to get fit THE HEALTHY WAY. I don’t want to return to those unhealthy eating habits, but I also want to lose weight to gain my confidence back! This may sound cheesy: It will be hard, but 2020 is my year.

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Gained back 12lbs over the span of a month and a half- damn you, holidays!

I had lost 28lbs in total and now have nearly gained half of it back. What makes it worse is the beginning of the decade vs end of the decade challenge where I look at pictures of me when I was 10 and how even at 10 I thought I was fat... it's weird how you genuinely think the worse of yourself when you're doing fine. Anyways, I can't wait to lose the water weight so it makes me feel like I've done something and then go back to actual weight loss. I have no new years resolutions because I have no timed quota but I guess my new years resolution would be to not gain more than my peak of 223lbs. Here's to a good year where I might be beach body ready in the summer!

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Well...... here goes nothing

Day 0:

This is a throwaway account but I’m going to document my weight (hopefully loss) here for every day during 2020. I will weigh myself in the morning but I assume I will be approximately 120kg. I’m an 18 year old male Whois 6 foot 6 and I will hold myself accountable to you guys.

I really want to lose this weight as although it hasn’t affected my health yet I want to be able to be in best possible shape in the future. I know it will not be easy and it will definitely not be quick but I hope to average around a kilo lost per week until July 15 next year when I will hopefully go on holiday.

I will be going to the gym but I am unsure on whether to mix in cardio with weights or solely do one or the other. So any advice is greatly appreciated. Feel free to comment if you are joining and we can smash this together.

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So, this year I decided not to wait for New Year to make a resolution.

[My progress](mgur.com/a/Y8CDq5l)

Best decision I ever made!

For the past 3 years, it was always my New Year's resolution to lose weight. But my plans never quite took off. After all the holiday splurgefest, I just no longer had the will to quit sugar/carbs and exercise.

When I tried dieting in the middle of the year, it was actually easier!

I'm 29M, 5'6". I went from 80kgs to 60kgs within 6 months. I'm doing the ketogenic diet, which consists only of meat and green leafy veggies, with absolutely no sugar/carbs.

It was really tough at first, because like most Filipinos, I love really, really loved rice. But now, I don't even miss it!

My exercise schedule is 30mins of running daily, 4x a week. Plus some crunches after running. I've been strictly sticking to this regimen for 6 months.

The past two weeks though, I couldn't resist splurging on cakes and sweets 😭. But, fortunately, my weight didn't seem to change.

I hope to get back on track TOMORROW! I can't get addicted to sugar again!

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At least 20 (kg) in 2020

So... I'm starting here with an ALT account I want to dedicate soley to my weightloss. You know the drill - new year, new me, yadayada.

In 2019 I crossed the 40 (age-wise) and I found it's not as bad as I thought. One advantage is for sure that I tend to give less shit about what other people think of me, and I think that's a big pro. I also lost a little in 2019 - around 10 kg to be precise, which is no big deal since I have to lose way more, but has been a good start to realize what does work for me and what doesn't.

My weight has always been tied to my mental health issues - depression and anxiety (this is why I decided to have an alt for this). I overeat for stress, comfort, and to reward myself. I don't have access to therapy at the moment, so I need to tackle this on my own right now. I know it's not ideal, but I think it's better to try make a change on my own than not even trying at all. I do realize that when I take better care of myself (eat less shit, move more), it not only helps my body, but also my mind.

Now I've been thinking about plans and goals. I want to lose at least 20 kg (44 lbs), but 40 kg (88 lbs) would be awesome. To achieve this, I want to build habbits, because I know those will help me once the motivation has left me. The things I want to focus on are:

1.) Logging everything I eat in MFP before I eat it - I can have everything but I MUST log it
2.) Go for a 60 min. walk every day
3.) Go to the gym 3 times a week (1 h weight training and 1 h cardio)
4.) Meal Planning & Meal Prep to avoid eating out and saving money and calories (the "good thing" is that my favourite delivery service closed down, so this might actually be easy to achieve)
5.) 18:6 IF with a calorie intake from 1300 kcal to 1600 kcal, not Keto but low(ish) carb
6.) Drink more water - I drink a lot of Coke Zero and I know it's not ideal. I want to introduce at least 1 l of water each day for the first 3 months and then upping it while lowering my intake of Coke Zero.

I'm also going to start a blog to keep me busy and distract me from watching Netflix and eating and of course also to document my journey. I hope I can share some progress pictures with you over the course of the year.

Let's do this!

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What a whirlwind 2019 has been! Here’s to reaching our goals in 2020! #workinprogress

So my story is a little different than most. I’ve been overweight for as long as I could remember. Throw in some childhood trauma and low self esteem and I was a recipe for disaster. I turned to food for comfort and let’s be honest here, who doesn’t love pizza? After HS, I gained about 80 lbs and I just felt defeated. I neglected myself and it came to a point that my MD suggested I get some sort of WLS. He told me I had an a1c of 12.4 at 28 years old. I wouldn’t make it to 40 as harsh as that sounded. I needed medical intervention. So on 04/19/16 I had gastric sleeve and of course the weight fell off. Within a year I lost 80 lbs. I was starting to feel good about myself and slowly but surely I got comfortable again and started making bad choices again. Fast forward to March of this year I had to give Keto a shot. I regained 40 lbs from my lowest weight. I was super ashamed of myself. Combined with a toxic marriage, i had to focus on myself and get back to basics! The emotional trauma of getting cheated on over and over again put me into GO MODE. I didn’t want to end up regaining all my weight back. Especially, with the stigma I had about having to get medical intervention to lose. I lost 8 lbs that first week and I’m proud to say that I’ve lost about 50 lbs since then. Keto is so easy for me to maintain and of course I have a treat here and there but i feel like I’m in a different state of mind. My mental clarity has improved drastically and I’m no longer on any medication for my blood pressure and my a1c is at a 6. I am super thankful for this community and It’s resources! I have about 50 more lbs to go and I am determined this time around! Thanks for listening!

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After all that work, I finally have acquired a neck

[330->183 = 147 lbs] 7 months

After many failed attempts and failed diets, I finally think I've done it. Now there's still a TON of work to do, but for once I was proud of myself and felt like sharing instead of lurking. No one talks about it, but there are a lot of psychological changes that happen after weight loss that I'm currently dealing with. I don't feel like myself anymore, I'm having trouble eating normal foods again, and sadly I've been having a hard time trusting new people that don't know what I looked like before hand. But those are problems for 2020! Happy New Years Everyone!

https://imgur.com/gallery/oiaDvfd

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Body disproportioned during weight loss.

Hello. (M/28) My weight loss so far has been going fantastic! I’m around 80+ lbs lost since last July and physically feeling better than I have since my teens. I’ve been doing Omad on weekdays with regular meals on weekends plus cutting out all sugars.

Even though I feel great and have gained a TON of confidence I’m still left frustrated at times when looking in the mirror. I accepted that I would have loose skin and look “sloppy” when I reached my goal so I’m prepared for that. However, I didn’t expect my weight lost to be so differing in certain areas. For instance, my face gains and stomach fat loss have been extremely noticeable while my chest has barely decreased at all. I’ve always been self conscience about that area because growing up I had a bigger chest. Which is a nightmare for a teen boy to have “moobs”. When I gained weight I stopped worrying about it so much because all of the fat just kind of blended in together. Now I’m self conscience about it again as it stands out more. It’s not even to the point where weightlifting will help lift or tone yet so I feel stuck for now.

I know there’s no way to target areas and that the weight will come off eventually. It’s just disappointing that even though I’m ecstatic with my results I can’t fully be satisfied with how I look yet. I suppose it’s just part of the journey and I have to keep pushing. I suppose I just wanted to vent and see if anyone else struggled with this. Thanks to anyone who read!

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Weight loss goal/New Years Resolution

As cliche as it is I really want to lose weight this year. My current (and highest) weight it 192lbs and I really don't want to hit 200lbs. I'm a 14 year old female and my height is 5'6. I can't afford a gym membership so my main method for losing weight is eating healthier. I also struggle with binging and grazing. In my situation (too long to explain) my family can only really eat microwave meals but I'm sure I could convince my family to change if there is a cheap and easy way to be healthier if anyone could provide such information. I hope I'm not asking for too much.

Is there any advice or tips anyone could give me? Or even just motivation is fine. I don't really have an end goal/weight in mind because I feel like that will make it harder for me if/when I mess up. I want this to be more of a lifestyle change to be healthier in general rather than to lose weight and look slimmer however I do want to lose weight for obvious reasons. Thanks for your help.

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Anyone wanna do a “no sugar January” with me?

As much as I don’t like to reinforce my “all or nothing mentalities” I have noticed that I can also use them to my benefit. It’s also beneficial for me to have an accountability partner of some type, someone I can make proud. Would any of you lovely people be interested in trying to get through the month of January without sugars? We could even exclude things such as fruit or breads.. this has always been a huge barrier for me because I think I am literally addicted to it. I’ve heard that it is more addictive than cocaine, which I don’t doubt! I’ve finally gotten into a good exercise routine, and my body CRAVES good food. But it is sooo hard for me to pass up sweets. Any tips, advice or if you would like to join me in this experiment? :)

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I'm trying to do it the healthy way this time.

Hi, guys. First post. I'm just putting this into words to hold myself accountable to the more emotional aspect of things. Sorry it's so long. I just joined after lurking off and on forever.

This is round two for me. I went from 184lb to 135lb 5 years ago over the course of 6 months, and now I've started again at 199lb. It's the highest I've ever been. It scared the shit out of me because I used to tell myself, "Well, I'll never let myself get to 200." I'm on the cusp of obesity at 5'10".

Last time I lost weight, it was one of the most unhealthy things I've ever done. I immediately restricted myself to 1200 calories max, and often times would end my day around 800-900cal. If I wasn't under 1200, I saw it as an absolute failure. On top of that, I was doing power walk/jog intervals for 5 miles a day every single day. When I would get tired and sore mid-run, I would say all kinds of horrible things to myself in my head to keep going. I was trying to eat as little as I could while burning as much as I could, no matter the cost to my overall or long term health. I wanted to punish myself, and that's how I did it.

I have Marfan's Syndrome and Ehler's-danlos Syndrome, which are connective tissue diseases that include extreme hypermobility and overextension in joints, and a couple of heart issues. I knew I was doing more harm to my body than good. I knew that what I was doing was about losing the weight as fast as possible, as opposed to doing it in the most practical, safe, sustainable way possible. I actively avoided diving into why I had such an awful relationship with eating and exercise habits and how I felt about my body and why. My brain has always operated in extremes, and not addressing that is probably the biggest reason of how I got where I am today.

For the last few months, I've been really trying to delve through all the emotional parts of my weight loss and body image journey. I've been working so hard to face those demons and figure out what a healthy mindset would look like when all I have ever done is bounce between giving up on my body through being overweight and giving up on my body through starvation.

Three days ago, after taking very consciously small baby steps like healthier choices, mindful portions, and short walks for three months, I finally felt comfortable enough to start tracking calories again. I don't trust myself enough yet to start tracking distances on my walks yet, but I know I'm making huge strides emotionally in learning to make progress without turning it into a means of self-harm. I've set my calories to lose 1lb per week, which was the second slowest option in my app, and I'm really proud of that. The projected time frame for my goal weight is something like 10 months, and I'm okay with that, too.

I just want to do this in a healthy way. I want to be a healthy person, and it just finally clicked to me after all these years that I was never going to be physically healthy until I took a hard look at my emotional and mental and physical health individually, and the relationships between each. And this is genuinely the first time in my life that I can remember where I feel genuinely proud of myself without feeling that underlying anxiety of what if I'm not doing enough, what if I fuck it up, what could I be doing more, how could I make this hurt the most. I'm just proud of myself with no strings attached, and it's so amazing that realization make me bawl my eyes out. And that pride doesn't come from staying on track for my calories or making sure I'm being more active, it's just from the fact that I feel already how much healthier my mind is in this process than last time, that it's out of love than harm.

So, here's to 2020 and a year of self love.

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If your New Year's resolution is to lose weight, maybe try taking it slow and use January as a month where you think about your relationship with food (or as mental exercise), then slowly incorporate physical exercise after a couple weeks in order to not overwhelm yourself and risk failure.

This is how I managed to lose 98 pounds this year, from 293 to 198 (25M, 6'0). I am glad I took that route because, yeah, when you start out, it can seem slow, but you have the whole year and time really flies by. By doing it slow, I feel like it's helped my body not develop troubling loose skin, and I feel like my new lifestyle has been very sustainable after so many prior failures.

My goal starting out was just to go from fat to less fat. I didn't obsess over a specific number because it can be overwhelming, and honestly, I would have never imagined 12 months ago that I would reach onederland. I have been on a very steady 10 lbs decline each month since July or so, so if the trajectory keeps steady, I'll be about 150 on April.

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I see a lot of back and forth on 'very low calorie' diets, any advice would be appreciated.

Male, 23, 6'2"/1.88 M tall, and 337 pounds. So I started with now/low sugar about 7 months ago. No soda, no candy, just some milk, a ton of water, occasional sugar-free Powerade. About 3 days ago I decided to cut out bread, and calorie count. For about 3 days now I've been under a 1000 calories a day, usually banana or apple for breakfast, and then at work a grilled chicken salad. I see a lot of people that say that is dangerous, and others that say for really big people it can work, I see 1200 being a standard, or 1500, or just my average calorie intake a day minus 500. I don't exercise, have no idea what kind of workout routine or anything I could/should be doing, never had anyone teach me. I am on my feet all day at my job, but it's just a sub shop, just standing and walking around.

Thank you!

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Helping a friend lose weight and get fit, need help with calorie estimation

I’m helping him and making him a workout program and meal plan. Only concern is how many calories he should be eating a day to lose weight. He weighs 340, about 6’1. Estimations will say around 4000 calories to lose weight. That’s doing his BW multiplied by 12. I’ve seen the range be like 10-13 for weight loss. I’m assuming if I use a online calculator it’ll be similar. He’ll be working out 4/5 days with the plan I make up for him.

For those that have been here before, is that an accurate number to start losing weight? Or should the calories be lower? I’m not wanting to start him super low considering it’ll just be a crash. Thank you to anyone that Can help me out here. I was thinking more 3000 cals to start him off

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I think it finally clicked

Hey, posting here for the first time. Throughout my teens until now I always have been gaining more and more weight because of my binge-eating disorder, worsened by school bullies and my mother making comments about it nonstop. I tried every diet there is, leaving me with more weight than before (as they usually do). To be honest, I'm tired of it. To let my life being dictated by an addiction like that. My scale tipped 272lbs two weeks ago and I'm only a 5'6 woman. I'm also only 27. I actually lost a bit weight until then, avoiding every trigger food there is and I'm now at 257lbs. I know, it's not a huge difference, but I already feel so much better, my mind is clearer, I'm much less moody and aggressive. I never eat out of boredom anymore. I never missed trigger foods once in those two weeks and I think it finally clicked inside my brain.

I wish all of you and myself good luck, we can do it, sometimes it needs us to fall down a thousand times, we just have to get back up and try again!

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A new start in a new decade

Happy New Year's Eve! I'm sure that I'm not the only one who is ready to firmly close the door on this decade. The last 10 years have been full of instability and humongous changes for me. I turned 20 in 2010, and since then I have moved at least once a year, lived on 3 different continents, built and then left a successful career, and gotten married, and started from nothing with my new husband on continent number 4. Y'all. Looking back at all of that upheaval, it's no wonder that my weight is nowhere near where I want it to be. I'm an emotional eater, and a stress eater, and that whole career shift thing really knocked me on my ass health-wise. I went from doing 15k steps a day just at work, plus a 3 mile evening walk to being desk-bound most of the day. So, I'm formally committing to making changes this year. I have an amazingly stable life now, and I need to build good habits for the next round of life being life-y. My plan is as follows:

Month 1: 1500 calories per day, tracking with myfitnesspal, and monitoring calories out with my fitbit. Weighing myself everyday and using the TDEE spreadsheet to calibrate my numbers correctly. An early morning walk and either pilates or barre workout at home for 60 total minutes of morning exercise. Classes at my gym 2-3 days a week, mostly cardio oriented because I love the hell out of spin class. I have a bunch of niggling little injuries that I need to rehab a bit before I can go balls to the wall, and I feel like this is attainable for me personally.

It takes 21 days to form a habit, so I'm going to track, blog, and instagram everyday to keep myself accountable. This community is amazing, and I am so excited to do this with you guys. See you in 2020!

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How will I know when to adjust my calorie intake?

35F, 5’0, 164lbs here. I started getting really serious about a month and a half ago about losing weight. My drinking was a huge factor in my weight and I’m currently 45 days sober because I want to get healthy. I started seeing a trainer 2x a week and a month or so ago I got a fitbit and started tracking my calories along with working out most days I don’t see my trainer. I sit a lot with my commute and at work so I’ve been consuming 1,200 calories a day. I do mostly strength training/lifting weights with some light cardio. So far in the past month I’ve lost 10.5lbs which I’m ecstatic about. I’m feeling stronger and more confident which is great! My title is the question. Do I adjust my calories when I hit a plateau? Or since I’m working out nearly everyday start sooner? I’m eating high protein low carb which I find really easy. I somedays don’t even have an appetite to eat the whole 1,200 calories. I did the BMR calculator and that’s how many calories it said I should be consuming. I’m supposed to be going on a vacation in a couple of months and want to keep losing weight.

Also anyone get runners knee? My right knee has always been weaker due to an old injury so I’ve switched to using the elliptical because it’s easier on it and use sports tape for support. I pan on bringing this up with my trainer on Saturday but any exercises/stretches that can help it?

Thanks

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Monday, December 30, 2019

To all those starting exercise or going to the gym as part of your New Years resolution.

This starting out part is going to SUCK. You are going to get winded fast. You are going to see other people making things you can’t sustain for five minutes look easy. You are going to get to points where you feel like you can’t catch your breath. Stick with it anyway. Try a little more each day. Cardio endurance builds surprisingly fast. You’ll be surprised how much progress you make when it comes to your endurance in just a few weeks. Consistency is the most important part though. Don’t skip the gym because you had to stay a little late at work. Or you had a late night the day before. Or you took a walk and that should count as your workout. If it’s a gym day, go to the gym. No excuses.

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(Story time) I blew $250 on an 8 week plan from an Instagram fitness coach and GAINED weight

To preface, this isn’t my first rodeo losing weight so you think I’d know better, right? Wrong! So, I just wanted to share my story of caution before you lose a bunch of money and don’t get the results from the client “progress” pictures that they recycle.

So, at the end of May, I spotted this girl’s Instagram that was relatively popular but not enough to where I thought it would be a ripoff. Probably around 100k followers. She had a great body and lots of videos showing what she did in the gym but of course, advertised that purchasing her program could do sO MuCH mOre !!

Unfortunately, I couldn’t start the program because I got a little (or life threatening) case of blood clots in my lungs and was not allowed to exercise for a couple of months until I was cleared by my doctor’s. So, time goes by and I’m ready to start! I’ve paid a bunch of money to see this magical program and I was excited. Low and behold, after filling out a questionnaire, she simply calculates my macros, provides me with an 8 page ebook of random recipes which many do not have calorie count or measurements to make the meal, and then an app for personal trainers she used with only FOUR videos of weighted exercises demonstrated by a beach body employee to be done in addition to only 10 minutes of cardio at the end for each day I was to workout. There was also a private Instagram where other women in the program showed off their meals, meaning they did the bulk of the work in providing recipes.

In addition, as an affiliate partner of a protein shake brand, she asked us to purchase from them and while I know protein powders are expensive, this site was CRAZY EXPENSIVE! We also needed to drink a terrible “greens” type of powder, which is $40 a pop for a small container. I think to myself “all of this is worth it to look like her, right?” Wrong again!

I’m a 5’6 female and started her program at 172 pounds. At the end of 4 weeks, using her macro recommendations, I GAINED 13 pounds! It sounds silly but while I thought the macros she gave me were high, I knew that you needed to eat more to gain muscle, but I was actually just gaining fat. She had me eating up to 1900 calories per day and eating tons of carbohydrates that literally could not be burned off with the minuscule workouts she provided. So yeah, I felt great because I was eating so much because I “had to” to meet the macros she set for me. It was only when my boyfriend expressed concern after taking my 4th week of bikini pictures to send to her that I realized the harm her program was doing for me when he told me “Baby, I don’t want to be mean, but this program is making you bigger. You were doing so much better on your own.” He showed me the picture comparisons from a few weeks ago to now and I was shocked. I had started off already not feeling confident but to just get bigger and bigger under her guidance when I had paid so much, especially as a college student. I also felt that something had to be wrong when she’d share a picture of a client who’d done her 12 week program and only have lost 10 pounds, which she would celebrate as some amazing victory. I’m sorry, but if I’m paying hundreds of dollars for your program, I do not consider it amazing to only have lost 10 pounds in 3 months! I would be disappointed if I’d only lost that much by myself in that amount of time. So, I decided to quit her program and am now blocked from her Instagram.

The moral of my story is, I know it’s fucking hard to lose weight. I do. But you can do this. Do not let yourself be bamboozled by someone on social media preying on your vulnerabilities. All the “magic” this trainer promised me about her program was either nothing I didn’t know before or nothing I couldn’t have found doing a quick google search. Many of the women who were doing her program all complained about the same issues I was going through with weight gain and she would just tell them to wait and give it time. She’d also use the same pictures of successful clients over and over again to keep shilling her business. Who even knows if they were hers?

I just want to add in that I’ve done other, more popular programs such as bodies by Rachel and it really all comes down to the same things: eat healthy, whole foods , calculate your macros, maintain a calorie deficit, look up different weighted exercises on google to compile into a guide to work out the different parts of your body and then throw in 30 minutes of cardio. Repeat 4-5x a week and adjust your macros, exercises and goals as your weight shifts. Proceed to watch the weight fall off.

And BOOM! That’s it! Am I a qualified Instagram personal trainer now? 😉

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I have to succeed in 2020

I've tried... and failed... countless times to lose a lot of weight. I'm somewhere around 415 lbs at present and hate it. I've done everything ufrom WW to counting calories to slow carb to... you name it. I've managed to lose 40 and even 50 lbs, but I always find some excuse to put the weight back on.

As I approach 50 years old, I realize that I'm losing the opportunity to do this right and to enjoy my life. I want to get down to 200 lbs (or less) and I know that it's going to be a long process. I'm going to try to make it stick with once a month lifestyle changes -- one at a time throughout the year -- and force myself to stick with each one for 4 weeks before moving on to the next. If I try to do it all at once, I know I'll fail again.

I'm definitely a stress eater and "boredom" eater and food is my drug. I'm going to learn to control my cravings -- somehow, some way.

Not sure why I'm writing this, but just wanted to get it out.

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How do you reward yourself without food for milestones?

I'm just starting out on my lifestyle transformation and I know I'm the kind of person that needs rewards to keep going. I know losing the weight and how I feel will be a reward, but I want something for when I reach milestones. Since Christmas just passed, I've been looking for advent calendars as a way to reward myself. I want something that's an instant reward but is NOT food. It's important to me to not reward myself with food anymore so I develop better habits. What are you guys' thoughts on instant rewards that aren't food?

Btw, I have tried googling this but only found things I could enjoy that aren't "instant gratification," so to speak. For example, some recommendations were "get a massage" or "buy a new workout outfit." While these are great suggestions, I want to be able to step off the scale when I hit a target and go celebrate, which is what made me think of advent calendars. What are your thoughts?

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Tantrum Tuesday - The Day to Rant!

I Rant, Therefore I Am

Well bla-de-da-da! What's making your blood boil? What's under your skin? What's making you see red? What's up in your craw? Let's hear your weight loss related rants!
The rant post is a /u/bladedada production.

Please consider saving your next rant for this weekly thread every Tuesday.

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does anyone feel odd about their body after losing a lot of weight?

i was always a chubby person even as a kid, and i’ve never been skinny in my life. last year i decided i wanted to lose weight because i didn’t want to end up with diabetes or any other health problems. i was 200 lbs then, and currently i’m 157 lbs. i’m still technically overweight (i’m 5’6”) and i still have a belly, but i’m the skinniest i’ve ever been in a long long time.

but i’m not really used to being like this. my double chin is gone. i’ve developed feeling and playing with my collar bone as a nervous habit. sometimes, when i’m walking, i feel weird like a part of me is missing, before realizing that it was just my extra stomach fat. a bunch of the clothes in my wardrobe are now too big for me, and i’m not even too sure that i can fit into them again when spring comes. even the new pants i got specifically for when i lost weight are becoming a little lose. and unfortunately... i can’t pat my belly and pretend to be a seal like i used to.

i mean, it’s not like the changes are bad or anything. i’m just so unused to them. sometimes it feels like i’m in somebody else’s body instead of my own.

idk, does anyone else feel like this?

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Tomorrow is a new day

Hello!

I’ve been on this subreddit for a while. From 244-ish lbs to 158lbs in over 3 years! It’s been a journey, and I’m almost done (I hope!)

Since New Years is on the horizon, I’d like to give some advice for those joining us. There will be days when you don’t hit your target deficit. You will have days where you overeat, but I’m here to tell you that that is life. If there’s one thing that’s kept me going it is this: tomorrow is a new day.

It is a new day of making choices. The choices you made yesterday do not have to affect the choices you make today. Every day can be a leap, a walk, or even a step towards progress. Weight loss may be simple, but that doesn’t make it easy.

Don’t fret, don’t dismay. Many of us on this subreddit have gone through all the trials and tribulations that come with weight loss. This community has been so informative and supporting toward everyone in the time I’ve been a part of it.

So whether you are a veteran or a newcomer to this subreddit for New Years, just know that tomorrow is a new day. You can always take a step towards progress, and the “you” a year from now will thank you for it.

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Q1 Goals

Long story short, I lost a bunch of weight 9 years ago and went from a size 16 to a size 6. I was able to maintain it until last year first by having the metabolism of a college student and then by having an eating disorder. But when I went to therapy, and my anxiety and OCD got better (and when I started a new job that had lots of hours), I gained back all the weight +15 lbs.

I’ve been through therapy and I’m working with a nutrition coach who knows my history (she helps me set macro goals). The issue with maintaining before is that I was so strict that it wasn’t sustainable. Plus it was based off of anxiety and OCD rather than from a healthy mindset.

This time will be different. I’m working on building healthy habits that I can maintain for a lifetime, and I’m doing it from a place of love and care for myself, rather than from fear and from hating myself.

That said, I wanted to post my “Q1” (first three months of the year) goals somewhere. As you can see, these are all action-oriented, not number on the scale oriented. I may not have control over how many pounds I lose, but I have control over my actions.

What are your Q1 goals??

  1. Only eat out on a weeknight once a month, unless special occasion or work event

  2. Meal plan on Saturdays

  3. Meal prep something on Sundays even if it’s just lunch for a few days.

  4. Prep lunch or buy a salad at least 4/5 work days

  5. Glass of wine no more than 3 nights per week. If going out, no more than 3 alcoholic drinks.

  6. Win the StepBet

  7. RP female physique templates—make it through the whole thing.

  8. Yoga at least once every 2 weeks

  9. Hit protein goal 4x per week

  10. Meditate 3x per week

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Therapist wants me to stop tracking my food as it repeatedly spirals into a harmful, obsessive, overly restrictive, ritualistic anxiety outlet when I feel out of control with my life. I am terrified of not logging my food because I so badly want to lose weight.

I practice intuitive eating (basically add heaps of fruit and veggies to my meals, drink lots of water, I never drink soda because I hate it, only consume small sizes with treats, stop when I am full or feel I will go over caloric limits) and have been logging my food at the end of the day (which recently I have been logging with practically every bite instead of at the end of the day).

Due to my past (and current struggle) with unhealthy restricting, tracking, etc I was advised to stop tracking my food and just eat intuitively.

Am I still able to lose weight? I’m absolutely terrified of this notion but my husband and my therapist are strongly urging me to stop immediately. What do I do?

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Without exercise?

Hi everyone. Been lurking for a bit, first time post. Last year I lost 30# with Weight Watchers. Then I decided to quit smoking. I've been successful with that and have been smoke free for 8 months. But during that time, I gained back that 30 and ten more! I recently decided to get back on a plan...just not Weight Watchers. I have a calorie tracker app called MyFitnessPal and am liking it so far. It has me set at 1500 calories a day.

A bit of explanation before my question. I have Secondary Progressive MS. Because of this, I have begun to use a wheelchair more frequently. Standing and walking are often too much for me. I have constant fatigue along with tremors and muscle weakness and spasms (think twitching and charley horses). Last year when I lost weight, my mobility wasn't quite so poor.

Is it possible to lose weight without doing dedicated exercises? I do some housework, and sometimes can walk with a shopping cart at the store. I also bought myself a pedal exerciser to use when I'm sitting to try to maintain muscle tone. Will this be enough movement? Should I cut back the calories?

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NSV: I beat my high school mile time!

Never thought I'd do it this fast, but I did it. I kind of half-heartedly thought maybe I could do it today, and I did! 6:44, beating my high school time of 6:53 by nine seconds. I guess all those miles on the treadmill running at incrementally faster speeds has paid off (not to mention my weight loss). At the gym, after my workout, I'll hop on the treadmill and run a mile. What I'll do is for every tenth of a mile, I'll up the speed by .5 MPH. I'll stop at .3 miles and power walk until I get to half a mile, and do the same thing until .8 miles, and then for the last tenth of a mile I will sprint as fast as I safely can. I've been doing that for a few months now and I think it's been helpful in increasing my stamina and endurance. I also think that by getting rid of all my extra weight through CICO, cardio weight lifting I'm having an easier time being able to carry myself through the whole run. It's crazy, back during the summer I could barely run for a full minute without getting winded and sweaty, and now I can run the full mile without hardly breaking a sweat. I was so proud of myself, and to think that high school was fifteen years ago.

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Do I Really Need To Lose Weight And How?

(16/F - 5"2, 155 pounds) Hello all, I'm new here and I'm looking for advice! So, just some background info before I get to my point. My grandmother has diabetes and is obese, my mom has been struggling her whole life to keep her weight in check (she isn't obese) and as a whole, I don't have have stick-thin genes but curvier ones and as you can image, putting on weight is easy with my genes. Also, I eat my feelings, I'm not especially fond of vegetables and I eat fat/sugary/cereal-ish type food 99% of the time when I can. With all of that in mind, it's no surprise that I have gained an unhealthy amount of weight in the past 2 or so years and I am now considered slightly(?) overweight for my age/height. All of that brings me to ask this: how do i lose weight in a healthy and not too intense manner? I hate nearly every sport or just physical activity in general, but I'm now considering going to the gym, but I just don't know how/where to start. If someone could give me advice, I'd very much appreciate it. Cheers! :)

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Husband told to stop dieting since it isn't working and makes me miserable

So that was really tough to hear today. But I have a very unhealthy relationship with food. And I completely lack any kind of self-control around it. If I'm not eating I'm thinking about eating. And believe me I work a ton I have a ton of hobbies and I can still manage to overeat every single day. Absolutely nothing takes my mind off of it.

And it's only in the last 10 years when I hit menopause that I was actually overweight so I've never had to deal with this in my entire life I've always been able to eat what I wanted and it's only when my metabolism change drastically that I had to go down this road.

Yes I'm pre-diabetic and according to the Libre app I am obese.

For two years I have been counting calories using lose it and it is the only thing that is keeping my weight from spiraling completely out of control. But my last two years has basically been lose a few pounds gained it back lose a few pounds gained it back I've never managed to lose more than 10 lb and I always gain it back.

I am primarily doing cico. I get in about 4000 steps a day. I started my own business so I pretty much work 7 days a week because I can't afford to have any employees.

To say that I am stressed and upset about this is the understatement of the year. I don't really know what to do. I want to lose the weight and I try to lose the weight but obviously I'm not trying hard enough.

And I miserable about it all the time and I don't enjoy food at all anymore. Knowing that every single day no matter how much I try no matter how many entries I make in the calorie counter it just won't make a difference drives me absolutely insane.

This isn't really where I expected to be at my age I guess this post is more venting than anything else. I really appreciate having this sub and being able to talk openly like this which I can't do with my husband when I try and explain it he just gets really angry and frustrated.

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Decided to get brave to make a post. Just looking for some good hard advice. Please :)

My stats. (F)27, CW-260, GW-150. First I read through the community info, FAQs and they were very helpful. Im currently at my highest weight and everyday I hate it. My whole life my weight has been a roller coaster. I’ve tried different diets and I know really it just takes determination and calorie counting is very important. I guess for starters I’ll say that I know that you have to want it. I just have this problem because I know I want it, I’m super frustrated that I have a closet full of clothes that I can’t wear anymore and my body always hurts. I just can’t ever stick to anything. I don’t love myself and I don’t know if that’s a big thing you need to have for motivation. I can’t look in the mirror or pictures, I haven’t even framed any of my wedding photos. I can’t stand it. I’m currently embarrassed about my newest double chin when I so much as look down.

I know I have an unhealthy relationship with food. I’ve struggled with depression and I have anxiety. I grew up poor and unfortunately still struggling financially so I have this mindset where when I go out and eat not at home I feel like I have to get everything I love right then because I don’t know when I’ll be able to get it again. I don’t know why but it’s always been there. No, I haven’t ever seen a therapist about it because I’ve never been able to afford one but I know that this is probably the first hurdle I have to overcome before anything else. I do have MyFitnessPal on my phone and I’ve used it here and there but it would help if I would actually stick to something lol.

My current schedule is a bit different than most people expect. I get up at 10am and make breakfast for my husband and when he leaves around 11 most of the time I just feel like going back to bed or I’ll play a game but a lot of the time I’m just tired. I leave for work and I work at a factory from 4pm-12am so it’s just mostly standing and repetitive movement. I get two 10 minute breaks and one 20 minute lunch so most of the time I just take a sandwich for something quick and I’ll end up raiding the vending machines for something sweet because I’m always tired. Any food suggestions are accepted!! (I know it’s bad to eat late at night but) when my husband and I both get home around 12am we eat dinner..hangout for a bit, shower, etc and then go to bed around 3am.

I’m mainly curious about opinions on exercise. I don’t own a treadmill or anything, (would love to), and I don’t have a gym membership right now because I can’t afford that monthly payment at the moment but it is a goal one day. The closest planet fitness for me is 35 minutes away and it makes me sad. I am very out of shape and I get really bored just with idea of walking down the street. I’ve recently seen a sort of documentary where a lady lost 20-30 pounds doing yoga at home and eating properly. Is that truly possible? Is that where I should start? I know anything like hard running is going to be hard on my body so I’m not sure what my options could be without gym access. Any recommended programs, games, videos? Anything from the beautiful and wonderful community is appreciated!

Sorry for the long post, it’s my first one so I felt like I needed to tell all. I hope everyone has a wonderful and successful 2020! Happy new year everyone!

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Can you comment on your partner’s weight if they’ve always been overweight? Struggling with intimacy due to attraction (Potential NSFW text content)

Hi r/loseit. I’m a lurker in this sub and would love to seek guidance about a dilemma I’m in. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months now. Typical I-wasn’t-looking story so we started off as friends and slowly started becoming romantic. The only problem is I don’t feel attracted enough to him for sex due to his weight. We do “other things” but obviously that’s not sustainable long term. He thinks I’m just not ready to go further but doesn’t know it’s an attraction issue on my end.

That said, I met him at this weight so I don’t even feel as though it’s a conversation I can start. He is casually trying to lose weight but not putting real effort into it. His eating habits have not changed since I’ve known him and doesn’t seem to understand how many calories are in food. He walked 15,000 steps with no other exercise and said he can have Chick Fil A. He drinks multiple regular cokes with meals. He never goes easy on anything we go out- burritos with queso, a serving of mashed potatoes is a whole plate, etc. He said he’s gained 30 pounds this year (I met him after) so he’s aware of it but isn’t doing much to combat it. While I feel like I owe him an explanation of the lack of sex I feel like I can only answer that by bringing up his weight which may not be appropriate in this situation.

How would you all approach this situation? We both feel strongly towards one another and we all know looks fade so it would be a shame to lose our relationship over this but it is a hurdle for me. Should I say anything (based on advice here) I would absolutely be respectful, kind, etc of course.

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Almost cried on the scale at work and again in a fitting room (SV and NSV!)

About 8 months ago I decided to get serious about weight loss and started working with a weight management doctor at the office I work for (I'm with the GYN provider, so other than knowing birth control doesn't really make you gain weight and that I needed to not use that as an excuse, I was pretty clueless) and it's been hard work, but I'm down 43.6 lbs out of about 100 total needed. I talked with the doctor and we agreed that the simple goal of not gaining over the holidays rather than a loss goal was a good step because I'm realistic with myself (I also run my own business and it was my insane time of year, plus all my husband works sales so it's his crazy time as well). I worked my first day after Christmas today and stepped on the scale and I was DOWN almost a pound over the holidays! All this time I was dreading it thinking I'd been eating like crud and surely I was up, but the healthy eating habits stuck! After work I hit up a sweater sale and grabbed an XL to try on. I got into the fitting and it was too big! This time last year I was still wearing some XL tops, but they weren't fitting like they were designed and it was more likely to be an XXL. I grabbed a L and it fit perfect! I'm almost 5'10" and just generally big, so I have no aspirations of getting below a L so this was amazing!

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Knowing is not doing

I’m a 28 year old male who has been overweight all his life. From the chubby kid with “big bones” to the chubby with muscle adult, being fat is, sadly, part of my identity now. It influences how I pick clothes, how I sit down, how I handle situations and ultimately how I behave.

What makes it more infuriating is that I know a lot about nutrition overall. Macro nutrients, energy balance, caloric intake, etc. I’m often the one debunking the latest fad diet or explaining my friends/family how the basics work.

Yet... this is probably the area in my life where I’ve failed the most. As much as I (at least think that I) know, I can’t stop being overweight. I can’t go from knowing to doing it. Consistently. Something always gets the best of me. Dinner parties, romantic dinners, family gatherings, weddings, etc. I’m sure you know it.

Now, I know that this is my fault and it is my responsibility. Looking back at this journey it is kind of crazy to think on how futile all the attempts have been. I’m sure many of you can relate to this, so let me know.

Here’s to some inspiration from you and to a better 2020 in this regard!

🙌🍾

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I feel like I did horrible today...

I still stayed under 2,000 calories eaten today, but I feel horrible.

I am F, 18, CW 235?, GW160. I have been on my weightloss journey for 8 days now, so far so good, until today. I'll show you what the last 8 days has been like, I still feel like I'm not doing enough.

Day 1: I ate 1,212 calories. Did 10 minutes of light weights to stretch, 1 hour of digging outside because we're digging a pond, then ran 1.6 miles.

Day 2: I ate 1,291 calories. I walked 6 miles.

Day 3: Christmas Day, couldn't keep count of calories, but I'm assuming I ate around 1,500 calories or less Walked 4.76 miles.

Day 4: I ate 1,001 calories. Walked 7.91 miles.

Day 5: Ate 1,219 calories. Walked 1 mile, 30 minutes of light exercise, 5 minutes running up and down stairs.

Day 6: I ate 1,022 calories. Walked 3 miles.

Day 7: I ate 1,280 calories. Walked 2.80 miles.

Day 8: Current day 12/30/2019. I ate 1,800 calories..... Because half a pizza was set in front of me and I couldn't resist. Luckily I only had a small salad for breakfast, so I'm still 200 below 2,000... I guess I wouldn't be so bummed about it if I was able to exercise like all the other days in the past 8 days, but today there's bad weather out and the power went out. So far there's not much I can't do, but I'll most likely do some sort of indoor exercise, like squats or something. I know that some may think that the amount of calories I'm consuming each day is too little, but besides day 1, I have been feeling great, no hunger at all. I haven't felt weak at all. It's amazing how full I feel after only eating a meal that's 300 calories for breakfast, instead of 1,000. I hope I've been doing good, I'm proud of the amount of exercise I've been able to do though, my boyfriend has been really supportive and makes sure we go out and exercise everyday. Just not today... Am I doing ok? I've had no thoughts of binging, just ate a little extra today. Also, at the rate I'm going now, would it be possible to lose the 75 pounds in 10 months? Thanks!

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Day 3: Traveling and Dieting is No Bueno

Holy cow! Traveling and being on a diet is hard. I’m currently sitting at a food court at Chicago O’Hare and the temptations are EVERYWHERE! I kept looking at the beautiful deep dish pizzas which were taunting me. They knew I wanted to eat them but I didn’t give in.

Thankfully I thought about this and packed chicken thighs. But it’s not helping really. I just ate two and now I’m left with 750 calories (I also ate earlier today). I wanna find something that is filling and low cal here at the airport but it’s a challenge. Anyone have any ideas?

Also, to keep up. Yesterday, I had for meals: - Two chicken thighs and Rice - eggs and bacon - Chicken Sandwich (sheetz has an awesome low cal menu)

I’m staying strong guys.

Thank you everyone for commenting on my last post. To give a quick clarification for others out of the loop. I’m doing a post everyday until I reach my goal weight. I’m currently 220 pounds and trying to get to 170 pounds. I want people to see the good days, the bad days, and the days that are meh.

Some quick stats about me: 21 year old Male Height: 6’1” Starting Weight: 220 Current weight: 220 Day 3 of the daily post

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No longer considered obese, just overweight!

Closing in on a solid 3 weeks of macro budgeting and I've lost 11 lbs. I just averaged my last weeks weight (I weigh every morning and then average at the end of the week because of fluctuation) and I am officially no longer considered obese by my weight. I'm still obese as far as my BMI is concerned but I'm just ONE point away from just having a high BMI instead. I'm pretty proud of myself and all of this has been done without going to the gym or exercising at all. Saturday I was feeling pretty crappy emotionally (I started a fight with my husband and then my pride wouldn't let me apologize so I was miserable) and didn't feel like eating anything but pizza. My soul wanted pizza so I fed myself a whole small extra cheese pizza. It. Tasted. So. Good. Sunday my body paid for it though, not by my weight but because my stomach was not happy. Today I had some appointments in the city and ended up eating a donut, no regrets and I'll continue eating what I've prepped for the rest of the day. Also, it's been 3 weeks without my beloved Mountain Dew. I've been having some distorted thinking regarding my calorie restriction so allowing myself to eat these things is a good thing in my eyes.

Wednesday will begin week 4 and that's when I'll start working out again; lifting weights 5-6 times a week with moderate cardio alternating throughout. I'm excited and nervous and also dreading Wednesday morning all at the same time. Starting out sucks. Especially since 10 months ago I was deadlifting in the 200s and managed to squat 255 lbs for one. And my poor bench that I finally broke 115 lbs with is just a pleasant memory, sigh. BUT I'm excited because I love working out and it's added quality time with my husband. And noob gainz are a real, beautiful thing.

I have 213 days (or 30.5 weeks) to reach my first goal of 140, but to be honest I'd be happy with 150. That's just a pound a week. Totally doable. I just want to have the body I had when I met my husband for our first wedding anniversary. I want to be strong and look strong, not like we should be picking out baby names (I hold all my extra weight in my tum and neck, everything else looks skinny).

My second goal is to have even the slightest outline of abs by this time next year.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 30 December 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Hello! :) I plan on doing keto starting January first, and I know I can do it. This year I want to push myself further to lose the weight. I have everything together except my mental health..

I’ve done keto before for almost a month and lost about 20 lbs but eventually gave in to my addiction of sugar again. I’m more prepared now and I’m ready to tackle my weight again. The thing is, I can’t look at myself in body mirrors without wanting to cry. I have seen old photos of when I had my ED in full force and wasn’t overweight. I had a nice jaw line. Now it’s all blubber. I went from one end to another from gaining 60 lbs in half a year due to stress eating. I went into adoption and got adopted and that started it all. Oh my god. It hurts to think about it. I want to do this, and I will. I’m just so scared that I will look like shit afterwards and my body won’t be attractive at all etc. I will need surgeries. I already plan on getting breast implants and excess skin removal when I’m atleast 20. I’m 16 right now. It sucks so much to be obese and have stretch marks the size of 6 inches on my stomach. I hate the fact that if I want to be healthy again I have to go through the trouble again and will probably end up relapsing into Ana.

I’m sorry for my health rant. I just hope you all know it’s not just about the health of your body. I want a healthy mind and I can’t have it yet. I bawl. This might not be the right place but I needed to get this off my chest. I hate myself. I hate the fact that my 14 year old self thought I was fat when I wasn’t near that at all. And now I’m obese. My bio mom has made fun of my body when she seen it because she said I looked like I gave birth to a newborn.

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Daily Q&A Post for Monday, 30 December 2019 - No question too small!

Got a question? We've got answers!

Do you have question but don't want to make a whole post? that's fine. Ask right here! What is on your mind? Everyone is welcome to ask questions or provide answers. No question is too minor or small.

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  • Include your stats if appropriate/relevant (or better yet, update your flair!)
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Need weight loss advice

Hi everyone. I need a little weight loss help. It's been months now and I havent lost 1lb! I'm 165lb, 37yr female 5'4''. I eat pretty healthy and track my macros and calories everyday. I aim for 1600 calories. Ive been told by my trainer at the gym that I'm not eating enough. I dont drink,much water, maybe 32oz a day, but I cant imagine water is the reason I'm not losing. I work out usually 4-5 times a week at a boxing gym and lift weights 1x a week. I'm not really sure how its possible that I'm working out so much, eating healthy, and eating do well. Any advice would be appreciated! Maybe I'm just missing something right in front of me.

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SV/NSV Feats of the Day - Monday, 30 December 2019: Today, I conquered!

The habit of persistence is the habit of victory!

Celebrating something great? Scale Victory, Non-Scale Victory, Progress, Milestones -- this is the place! Big or small, long or short, please post here and help us focus all of today's awesomeness into an inspiring and informative mega-dose of greatness! (Details are appreciated!! How are you losing your weight?)

  • Did you just change your flair? pass a milestone? reach a goal?
  • Did you log for an entire week? or year?
  • Did you take the stairs? walk a mile? jog for 3? set a new personal record?
  • Fit into your old pair of jeans? throw away your fat clothes? fit into your college outfit?

Post it here! This is the new, improved place for recording your acts of awesomeness!

Due to space limitations, this may be an announcement (sticky) only occasionally. Please find it daily and keep it the hottest thing on /r/loseit!


On reddit your vote means, "I found this interesting!" Help us make this daily post the most read, most used, most interesting post on /r/loseit by reading, commenting, and participating often!


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Calorie Tracking Question

I work third shift, 1030pm-7am, and I had a question on how to track my calories. I use MyFitness Pal as my tracker. I usually go home and sleep from like 9am-2pm. I have been tracking my calories like normal, meaning once it hit midnight while I was at work, it’d switch to the next day. So, hypothetically, say I ate something at 6pm it’d go on Monday and then at work had something around 3am I would add it to Tuesday. I have been thinking, and was wondering if I should just keep it on like the sleep cycle. So my Monday would start when I woke up and go to when I got off and went to sleep. I’m not sure which way is the best way. So I was just wondering how I should do it.

Sorry if this was confusing, I didn’t know a better way to explain it.

But side note: I’m down 27 pounds!

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How to Lose 20 Pounds at Home with a Busy Schedule Over 40s

How to Lose 20 Pounds at Home with a Busy Schedule Over 40s This video caters to individuals in their 30s and 40s who are seeking to red...