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Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.
The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.
Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.
How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.
The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.
Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.
It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.
It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.
You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.
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Any advise or explanations why weight loss causes hair loss? I’m 95% sure it’s my diet, because this happened to me before. What stinks is I haven’t lost that much maybe 5 to 10lbs. If that. But still my hair is falling out like crazy.
Last time I went to a doctor she said there’s really nothing that can be done. She said, by the time biotin goes through me, for it to work I’d have to take it for 6 months.
I’m hoping one of you have some answers for me.
Incase you are wondering….I cut out red meats and pasta. Yup, that’s it. And the weight is falling off!!!! The other thing is once a week I eat cabbage soup for a few days. That’s all I’ve done really that’s changed. I guess I feel better, because I’ve caught a few guys looking at my butt in the grocery store. Which wasn’t happening a few months ago.
Not the point, but back to hair loss. Anyone got ideas? As to why? Or what I should take vitamin wise to help? I’m very upset about it my hair is down to my mid back.
I’m thinking it’s the loss of iron causing my hair to fall out. But I don’t know. I’m really worried about it.
tonight i got my photo taken with my halloween pumpkins and, of course, was confronted with the reality of my weight. the photo wasn't painful to look at and, tbh, i think if i dressed properly i could look sort of cute fat. i mean, to me that's not the end goal, i'm just saying i don't think i look the worst i've ever looked. although i'm not a monster and i don't hate my body, i still think that if most women my age were to find themselves in my body, they would be horrified and eat nothing but salads and drink nothing but water until they looked better. as someone who would like to have a normal, healthy bmi that wouldn't cause a slim person to panic, i think a question i should ask myself more often is 'do you really think you should be eating that?'
if someone else were to ask me that, i would tell them to go fuck themselves because i can eat whatever the hell i want. it's part of my nature to be defensive, a contrarian, to resist authority and to flirt with taboos. sometimes being fat feels like a protest but in the end, it just doesn't do me any favours. being less defensive, i realize i really do need to lose weight, and i can't take until forever to do it. i'm wasting good years of my life that i won't ever get back and risking my health and quality of life.
i always find myself surfing youtube cooking videos for cooking ideas, and what i'm watching is often shit i shouldn't eat. for me, that's where the food i eat starts: as an idea. from the idea, it goes to the grocery store, then the kitchen then the plate. if i'm already going to the trouble of finding and cooking recipes why don't i eat healthier food? why don't i change up my diet to include healthier foods and exclude all the treats that are keeping me from my goals? there's no reason not to. i admit it, i give up. you're right, voice of criticism, i really shouldn't be eating this.
SW:190 CW:140 GW:120 I started working out this January 2021 and by June I lost 50 pounds. I’m proud of myself. I feel healthier and by that I mean my skin no longer breaks out, I have more energy to do things, I no longer have upper back pain and sleep is much better.
Prior to losing weight I had red stretch marks on my stomach and well NOW they’re no longer red. Some are completely gone and other stretch marks look white.
My question is do stretch marks ever go away completely ??? I don’t like how I lost weight and still deal with the fact that I still have stretch marks ???!? I tried cicatricure, Mederma,and Bio Oil on my stretch marks and they’re still noticeable? Please don’t hate on me y’all I’m trying my best to love myself. I’m not seeking attention or anything. I had stretch marks since I was 12 year old girl on my stomach and Now I’m 20. So I’m obviously very insecure at that fact that I don’t feel confident now either. I felt insecure ever since I got red stretch marks as a 12 year old girl and I still feel insecure. Please don’t hate on me I’m doing my best to love my body.
I posted a few weeks ago about gaining the weight I lost back. I took your advices and got my shit together, and I am almost back to the weight I was, just 2 pound left. I went from 150 to 142, and I look lean like before. I know a good chunk of it is water, but its still incredible. This is not a short term thing, I was around 150 for at least a month. I thought it was water retention at first but after a month I gave up hope.
Does it mean I was just retaining water before? Because I was bingeing on lots of sugary things. I did notice that I weighed a lot more than I expected (from counting calories) before. I also had my period recently (which is irregular due to IUD). I mean, I had a pretty big deficit of 1500 calories per day and I eat significantly less carbs but it was mainly from walking as I have a treadmill desk and I am more productive using it which I need for my exams happening now.
I am confused.
Hey. I currently weigh 140 kgs / 310 pounds.
In 2020, I lost 30 kgs through keto alone. Zero exercise. No cheat days.
This year, I started going to the gym regularly while still on keto and ended up plateauing for months. Frustrated with the lack of results, plus being thrown into another lockdown, I've relapsed and regained 10 kgs.
I need something extreme, especially since gyms aren't open yet. I'm thinking about doing keto + IF, allowing myself a 4 hour window from 6pm to 10pm. (I wake up and sleep late and I don't mind not eating during the day.)
I've tried to look into which intermittent fasting technique or time period is the most effective for weight loss but there seems to be a lack of data. I'm assuming the larger the fasting period, the more effective it would be?
Anyway, tldr: Planning on doing keto + 20:4 IF. Good idea or do I need to make an alteration to my plan?
I'd appreciate any advice. Cheers.
Hi everyone, I’m a 5’8 M coming from 271 lbs now at 215. It’s taken me about 6 1/2 months. In that time, I’ve fallen in love with running and lifting, which has aided my diet in weight loss, until recently. Ive had trouble losing over the past month and have fluctuated between 214-218 with no real drop in sight. In this past month, I’ve incorporated Brazilian jiu jitsu 3x a week for 2 hours a piece. This extra work has made me extremely hungry. I haven’t been acting on this hunger for the most part, but haven’t had any further weight loss since upping my workout regimen. I thought adding this in would have an impact on my weight loss, but it’s only made my deficit more difficult to maintain. I’m worried about slipping on my diet, or if my body isn’t being given the amount of calories I need to maintain weight loss? Building muscle? Im looking for any advice on what may be going on, and what I can do to adjust my diet for the new exercise volume to make me less ravenous after big workouts.
For reference I'm 24/F/5'4.5", SW 136lbs, CW 104lbs.
I wanna start by saying that I've struggled with body image issues and my weight even since puberty (when I was 10 years old). At the time I gained weight really quickly and was overweight (before this I was at a normal weight). My highest weight was 160lbs but it dropped between 150-155lbs. I maintained that weight throughout my teenaged years. I was really upset about my weight and felt disgusting, ugly and fat. I was also going through a difficult time and I would often emotionally eat. I dreamed of being skinny.
When I started university at the age of 18, I became very stressed and unintentionally lost 14 pounds in a month (136lbs). I was happy about the weight loss and felt more confident in my body.
Fast forward to 2020 when the pandemic started. I kept seeing posts online about how many people were gaining weight during the pandemic. I live with my parents and sister and I noticed that they were gaining weight. What really scared me was that my sister who has been underweight her whole life was gaining weight. I was TERRIFIED that I would gain the weight that I was during my teenaged years as I felt truly horrible during that time. I also wanted to live my teenaged dream of being skinny. So during the fall of 2020 I decided to try to lose weight (my original goal was 120lbs). When I started I estimated my calories. At the time there was no scale in the house to use to track my weight and I didn't purchase one as I didn't want my parents to know that I was trying to lose weight (I ended up getting one later when the weight loss was noticeable).
Fast forward to now, and I lost too much weight. I'm underweight, my period has been gone for 7 months, my appetite is gone, my stomach is in a lot of pain, and I'm having health issues now. I'm an emotional mess and it's affecting my relationships.
My doctor has recommended that I eat 2500-3000 calories per day to regain my period. 2500 seems to be the common recommended amount for people with missing periods. The thing is, I'm pretty sure I ate around that amount when I was 136lbs! I'm ok with gaining some of the weight back but I don't want to gain all the weight back (or more) just for my health. It will feel like all my progress will be lost. I'm also scared of gaining more weight than intended as I've changed my eating habits (I have severely limited my liquid calorie intake).
TLDR: I lost too much weight and it's affecting my health. I have been told to eat 2500-3000 calories per day however I'm scared that if I eat that much I will gain back all the weight that I lost (or even more!) and all my progress will be lost. I'm scared I'm going to have to gain it all back for my health.
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hi all...this will be a long one.
I am a long-time reddit user who recently deleted my old account because I got toxic with asking for advice from strangers on the internet then taking it too much to heart. but atm I dont know where else to go and I needed to vent.
my life is...an emotional mess. and my weight is hugely suffering (no pun intended). I dont even know where to begin. there is so much I need to "work on" that I feel overwhelmed and now years have passed without me even bothering.I have always been big. my whole life. starting weight (and highest ive ever been) was 314lbs) been bullied for it at school and at home. it wasn't till last year (sept 2020) that I suddenly decided I wanted to lose weight for ME. im not even really sure why.
in dec 2020 I was living in NYC for my phd. I was loving life. going out, meeting people, parting, exploring, starting dating a super hot guy (I wanted to try out casual dating since I couldnt find a serious BF and started to realise how lonely I had become) and just having SO much fun. I did have acute stress and aniexty (I had psosaris and arthritis so ive always taken stress quite literally on my body) but I had a therapist in NYC and it was helping. my main issue was I had searing chest pain due to aniexty which freaked me out a lot. I also suffered a lot of panic attacks. but I was WORKING on it! I was going to an Ivy League for a visiting scholarship. life was still overall awesome. I started walking more, eating less and lost weight. lost about 20lbs in 4 months. but i also developed PCOS in the process (my body reacted weirdly to the sudden decline in weight after YEARS of a steady incline). I took a break cos I had had a period for 1 month straight (heavy bleeding). it stopped. I stopped losing. corona virus hit. lock down began and I had to go home (UK). I thought it would last 2 weeks tops (no joke, what a shit show). I go home and started failing with the phd work (supervisors even recommended I re-think doing a phd) and struggled for 8 months with deciding to leave it or try again. 8 months! stress, aniexty and depression hit. after 8 long months in lock down slowly working on a failing phd, I quit the phd and gained back the weight I lost. I had no study, no job or direction, left NYC the city I fell in love with, just got ghosted by the man I lost my virginity to in NYC (after 3 months of a stupid situation-ship I should never have entered into in the first place) and was depressed and lonely AF. I spent April and maymourning a relationship (I barely had) for 2 months when I got home. I spent the subsequent spring and summer walking around in parks, drinking coffee alone in my car on drives and going to grocery stores as a source of entertainment (it was still lock down late 2020 here). I had moved back home permanently after years living out/abroad and was adjusting to being with my family 24/7. it was hard. I was sad.
around September (after the depressing spring and summer) I decided to get a gastric ballon (3 months long, suppressed appetite). I dont know - even now - what motivated me to finally lose weight. I think the combo of walking, realising I can eat whatever I want (and lose weight) and genuinely wanting to live longer was the trigger. oh and I wanted to buy all the clothes I ever wanted without worrying about only going to the plus size section. did the ballon. I did lose weight. I lost a good 10 kgs (basically the weight I lost in NYC naturally). I could have lost more but tbh I didnt utilise the time with the ballon the way I should have. the most weight I lost, I lost in the first week (did keep it off though). yes - the ballon wasn't utilised the way I had wished BUT I learnt a LOT was weight loss, diet and Heath in 3 months (due to understanding when I was actually hungry, how much food I actually needed and I learnt to not overeat and be less greedy/binge! - yay me!). once the balloon was out, I continued. having the balloon (mostly due to the £ my parents put into funding it) motivated me to continue the 'weight loss journey'. I felt bad, I didnt wanna loose that progress but I also liked seeing how healthy I was getting. I also figured around that time I needed to figure out my career and over winter started looking for a job. it took a solid 2-3 months or so but I got a really great job by January. a really good job (and competitive one). life was looking up.
I need to add here - around jan 2021 I started getting the non-stop period again. I go on the mini-pill for 6 months which makes no difference, see specicalists and nothing. my non-stop "period" (small bleeding everyday which increased when I exercise) just ended a month ago. I bled everyday for almost 8 months.
life continued looking up till about June-ish. I noticed everyone around me progressing...in a different way. friends were getting in relationships, married, engaged, babies - all of it. and here I was, JUST got over a 3-month situation-ship (of which, tbh, my main focus was losing my V-card but then I caught feelings). I threw myself into the dating apps and dated over summer with no real results. I knew casual things/fwb/whatever wasn't for me. but guys, I was (and still am) - lonely. so lonely. I feel so alone. I want someone. I want a relationship. I want someone to care for me and someone to care for. but I am fat woman in a skinny society. all men see when they see me is fat. they see funny, kind, caring, considerate, smart, witty or a well-situated individual in society. they see fat and belly rolls and not-arm candy kinda girl. I felt ugly again. I was spiralling emotionally again. I felt the intense loneliness I felt when I got to NYC. I had a few minor panic attacks again and felt that familiar searing pain in my left arm (which I use to think was a heart attack every time it happened - scary way to live. so I did something silly - I got in touch with an old friend who I knew wanted to have a fwb with me. and I did it. I got involved again, with another emotionally-unavailable man. it started off fine, we hung out all summer (while I was also dating) and it was fun. then feelings got involved and things got complicated. I was forcing myself to have a casual relationship out of pure loneliness even thought I know damn well I am a relationship kinda girl. I wanted more and he did not. things ended and I told him I needed time to get over things. it feels like a break up, but it isn't a break up :-/
in the last 2 months that this all started going downhill, I stopped losing weight, I started doing really badly at work and gained 6lbs. and not just through being lazy, eating badly too. I lost all the disipline I gained over the last year. just today I had 4 slices of pizza, a doughnut, pancakes, pad Thai, spring rolls and cake. just TODAY. I haven't eaten like that in MONTHS. I haven't comforted myself with food in MONTHS! I use to walk when I was stressed (a good habit I picked up in NYC when exploring the city and lost after started working from home). for the past 2 months I feel like I want to cry everyday but it wont come out. I began therapy again - for depression - about 2 months ago and although it has been helping I keep thinking what will I do when its over? I cant seem to manage my emotions. I did manage to recover at work but that was mostly out of fear of not passing probation (which was extended due to poor performance). my health issues weren't resolving. the period problem wouldn't stop and with winter approaching now my prostatic arthritis is getting worse. my aniexty is worsening. my stress is out of control and I feel so damn lonely.
today I am sitting here after trying meditation, yoga, social media cleanses, not using my phone for hours a day at a time, cutting out people, letting them back in, cutting them out again, keeping to myself, opening up, watching countless ted talks and whatnot and I am TIRED. I am TIRED of "working on myself" and feeling the same after periods of time. feeling sad, lonely, tired, fat, ugly and lost in life.
my weight is suffering. my health is suffering. my heart is suffering, my brain is suffering. this last casual relationship really made me crazy emotionally. I lost my balance in life. and now I feel tilted. I feel really lost and confused. I want something which I know isnt good for me but doing all the right things (avoiding casual relationships because I know that isnt me or someone who doesn't have capacity for me in his life) is HARD. doing all the "right things" still leaves me lonely. yes - way less stressed and 'empty feeling' but still lonely and I am taking it out on my weight.
my weight, my general health (PCOS, skin and bones), my pathetic love life, my stress and aniexty...it is all getting to me. I just feel so helpless. all I want to do is cry but it wont come out. I want to cry SO BADLY. its as if I have accepted that my life is this and there is not point even crying about it.
all I know is that I am freaking lost and I feel sick after binging all day and all I want to do is smoke a cigarette (which I am also avoiding after smoking way too much the last few months). I dont know what I hope to achieve posting this. I dont know if I want advice or comfort or something else. I just felt like I needed to get it down.
thanks for reading if you made it this far.
I restarted my fitness journey this summer after moving across the country with my boyfriend. I’ve lost almost 25lbs (depending on the days fluctuation lol) and we have been pushing ourselves to go to the gym together 5/7 days of the week. Which doesn’t always happen, but we really do our best. I lost 20lbs just by counting calories and walking. Nothing else. I didn’t lift, didn’t do bike, nothing. I’m proud of myself for sticking with walking, it was an easy way to get myself moving and start off! Now, I have added the arm/back machines at my local planet fitness. My routine is 30 minutes cardio then 15-20 on those machines.
I became a little bored with walking, and wanted to switch it up, so I tried the elliptical. I love how much it makes me sweat, but I hate the machine. It’s doing what it is supposed to, which is make my legs work.But it hurts so bad, it’s just so strange that I was up to 12 incline on the treadmill with almost no problems, and them level 1 on the elliptical kicks my butt!
Another thing is.... calories. I count everything but right now it’s so hard to stay on track. I want to snack on my whole pantry. I was at 1500 and losing, went up to 2100 and maintained (I think that was too high for me to make progress) and now for this week I’m working my way back down starting at 1800 and specifically focusing on my protein and water intake.
Do I seem to be missing anything? Am I doing anything wrong?
Yesterday, I went to the doctor's office and weight 47 kgs which should be within my weight goal of 45 - 50 kgs (im 4'11 and was considered overweight at 55 kgs) but rn i an experiencing lots of stressors on that day too and ate 2100 calories. As youve guessed it, i gained 2 kgs when i stepped into the scale the next day
I panicked, tried to compensate by reducing the calories the next day and exercising more. But its like a dam got broken. I kept eating. I want to eat less than 1000 calories to compensate but im eating 1200, 1300 even with the exercise.
The 1200 calorie diet was recommended by my doctor who diagnosed me with prediabetes. And im having a hard time right now trying to gain control. I feel sick of myself, i want to vomit. I honestly feel like im in a cusp of an eating disorder but i feel like thats just an excuse
I dont want to think about food or diet anymore. But since i have prediabetes that is not an option
I dont know what to do anymore. Can someone pls help
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Welcome to r/Loseit!
So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.
Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.
The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.
Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.
How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.
The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.
Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.
It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.
It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.
You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.
Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.
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SW193llb, GW 123lbs.
I'm on medication that affects mulitple dopamine receptors, glucose tolerance and increases ghrelin levels. Half of the people on it become obese - myself included in that figure. I have put on 80lbs since starting it. It also increases my risk of diabetes 5 fold, increases cholesterol levels, heart disease etc - some of that increase is due to the metabolic syndrome that it causes.
I cannot come off this medication. It's just not an option. So I have to deal with it. I tried for 4 months earlier this year and I lost 9lb over 4 months - but I was busting my arse (I thought) to do it. This time I've starting using MyFitnessPal, and going on really long walks when I can have time with no kids. I'm just a couple of weeks in to it - so there is a fair amount of water weight in there, but I KNOW I'm in deficit. I KNOW I will see more results. I just need to stay focused - and will likely always have to log my food and exercise to stay on track.
I lost a significant amount of weight before - after pregnancy I lost around 40lbs. This is definitely harder. I know my biochemistry is stacked against me more than that time. But I am determined. I am no longer getting a sugar hit with sugary coffees, and am eating more fruit and vege.
I have struggled with my weight since I was a teenager. Everytime I've had success, I get burnt out over time and return to my old habits. I've been putting a lot of thought lately into what I need to do to make some long term changes. I currently weigh 250 and would ultimately like to be about 175. I had a baby last August (2020) and told myself when she weaned I would do something about it. It's been over a month and I'm still not doing anything.
I've realized about 80% of my struggle is coming up with what to eat - it's exhausting! I was thinking about coming up with two months worth of menus that I could just cycle through. I could do the same breakfast/lunch for a week but need some variety with dinners. So I would need 8ish breakfast and lunch ideas then maybe 45 dinners as I could reuse some. I don't have a lot of hurdles for B&L. I work from home 4 days a week so I have my full kitchen and I'm not overly picky. For dinner, I would like to make one meal that everyone can eat. I have a one year old that has a dairy allergy (so no cheese, milk products, etc) and a pretty picky husband.
Give me your suggestions to build my calendar! The simplier and more staple ingredients, the better. Thanks in advance for your help.
So to start i went to the doctor today and i got weighed my weight loss goal is 134 pounds it feels so far away from where i am now which is a 530 pound 5 ft 4 woman. I feel that I’m gaining weight at a rapid speed because 3 months ago i was 496 pounds and i gained 24 pounds in only 3 months! I just know i need to change I’m so tired of my back hurting and running out of breath easily even my desk job is getting affected by it! I can just say I’m happy with being this size but it would be lying. One of the worst parts is that all my weight transfers to my belly which is super difficult to lug around a almost 2 foot long tummy around. I know what to do but i need guidance and i hope this community can help me. Thank you 🙏
For context, I started counting calories in 2010 or 2011 and I've been in "maintenance" for a while, but I'm trying to crack down on 10 lbs I gained back. For that to be successful for me, I know I have to be really strict about calorie counting and weighing myself every day. I feel fine about that most days, but sometimes I'll hear about a person who has an eating disorder, and their disordered behaviors sound a lot like my own.
An example: yesterday, I found myself still a bit hungry late in the evening, but had no calories left. I knew I was going to a birthday party today where there would be cake and probably other junk food, so I decided to just push through the hunger and enjoy the party today instead. For me, that choice felth very healthy and like good self control, but if I told someone like my mom that I let myself go to bed hungry so that I could enjoy cake the next day, she'd be worried that I have an eating disorder.
I guess what I'm wondering is: where is the line? When does strict calorie counting (or other weight loss techniques) become disordered eating? It seems like it's when a person continues to lose weight past the point of it being healthy, or if someone becomes so obsessed with it that it causes distress to their life. Maybe there isn't a line, and what works for some people doesn't work for others, but I'm curious if anybody else has thoughts or experiences regarding the topic.
I'm male 17 176cm and currently 91kg about 200 pounds. My goal is to lose around 20kg by the end of March 2022 I don't have access to a gym any advice would be appreciated. If it help pretty much 90% of my fat is located in the upper half of my body before it got cold as shit I bike a lot so I've got a pretty well built lower half just need to work on the top now. The whole reason I got to this point was due to ADHD meds making me want to eat more from a young ange and now that I've been off for around 2 years I have no idea what to do to loose weight. Again any advice is greatly appreciated trying to loose this weight as soon as possible.
m21, 185 pounds, 6’0 for reference
i didn’t know how else to describe them, so i went with “phantom calories” to get us in the spooky mood. ive been dieting and losing weight since january this year and have lost about 110 pounds, but i’m still scared that ill log my food wrong and overeat accidentally.
i even use a food scale and measure everything by gram (unless i eat the whole container, like those pre-packaged protein drinks or a whole can of fish, then i just log the whole container).
despite weighing everything, i’m worried that i’m going to mess up and weigh something wrong. or, more frighteningly, ive heard that calorie amounts can be off by more than you’d think. i have no reason to worry that this is happening. ive been consistently losing weight this entire time, but im still worried that my weight loss might stall because i chronically eat something that has a mislabeled calorie amount.
i kinda wrote this to vent about what’s going on inside my head, but if anyone has some advice or reassurance or info about how nutrition facts are labeled in the us, i’d appreciate it.
Hey, I was just wondering... is it even a realistic goal for someone like myself who at my heaviest was 443lb, with 260lb to lose to get to my goal weight to imagine myself one day having defined and tight pecs and abs? Is that even possible with body contouring surgery / loose skin removal? Or will there always be loose skin / sagging at this point that will never really get me to the same level of tautness that you see in magazines and other media of physically fit men?
I want to do this for my health... but I have never had that kind of body in my life and it is one of my biggest goals. I just don't want to idolize and hold that goal on a pedestal if it's entirely unrealistic.
I was wondering if anyone knows of even one example on the internet or can point me to some progress photos showing someone who has had SIGNIFICANT weight to lose who went from morbidly obese (400+) to shredded after the fact.
Thank you.
I'm pretty new to gymming, been at it for about a month and a half. I noticed that after I finish my workouts, I'll be completely exhausted, but I'll feel like I have enough energy for another full gym session several hours later. Is this normal? Should I just pace myself more between my sets/take breaks and continue later? Feeling like I have enough energy later makes me feel like I didn't put enough effort into my first session, should I just go to the gym a second time in one day? I'm not sure if it's just because my brain is pumping adrenaline into my body or not because I'm really eager to lose weight.
Hello lovely losers,
Technically, it's day 30 so you can wrap up if you like! I'm going to wrap up tomorrow.
Here's the sign up post for November.
Onto goals!
Weigh in daily, enter in Libra & remove moral judgement/stigma/shame directed at yourself about it: Missed this morning.
Maintenance: On it!
Exercise 5 days a week: Did strength work & cardio. I think my squat form isn't as tragic as I thought. 25/30 days.
Alone time to word vomit into journal: Nailed it!
Todays gratitude list: Today I’m grateful for opal apples, moon drop grapes & feeling a little more at ease in my own head lately.
Express gratitude to today me for good choices: Thanks, I hate it. Today I'm glad I drank lots of water & get my workout knocked out first thing. I'm also glad I went to my doctor last week to get some adjustments made.
How about y'all? How was your day? Doing anything fun for Halloween/Samhain?
Hello lovely losers! It's almost November, which means it's time for a new DAC!
For the newbies to the sub reddit, please start here, so much good info!
https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/quick_start_guide
https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/faq
And hey, maybe it’s not a bad idea to review them anyway to you returning conquerors. I do occasionally to remind myself of the basics.
Here’s what we do in the DAC my friends!
This is the sign up post (and day 1) to outline your goals, weight loss, self care, creative, whatever keeps your motor going.
There will be a daily update post for you to chime in about how day whatever is going!
At the end of the month, there is a wrap up post to reflect on the progress you made or didn’t make & what you learned. Learning is progress my friends!
We try to foster a supportive, caring place to discuss the actual day to day of deficits & counting & caring so much about how we fuel our bodies & lives. So be kind, interact if you like & hopefully you feel supported and cared for. Leading by example, here I go!
Weigh in daily, enter in Libra & remove moral judgement/stigma/shame directed at yourself about it:
Maintain weight for the holiday season:
Exercise 5 days a week (strength work 3 days a week): X/X days.
Nanowrimo (replacing the journal goal for this month): X/X days.
Todays gratitude list: Today I’m grateful for
Express gratitude to today me for good choices: Thanks, I hate it. Today I'm glad I choose to
Your turn everyone! What do you want for the month ahead?
I am 20M, 5'8 and 180lbs. My goal is to lose 40lbs and get back to 140lbs as soon as possible.
I already started a couple days ago, but heres my plan:
Eat 2500 calories a day. 100 grams or more protein everyday to help keep on muscle.
Burn 3500 calories everyday. This will include me riding my bike for for 90-120 mins everyday and daily résistance training.
So there should be about a 1000 calorie deceit everyday, which should lose me about 2 pounds per week. 20 weeks to reach my goal of 40lbs.
Preferably I would like to lose it faster but from what I know it seems like a bad idea, would slow down my metabolism too much and would lose a lot of muscle instead of fat.
So please tell me what you guys think of my plan. Is it too aggressive or can I do more? Any suggestions or comments are welcome. Thank you!
I really don’t know if this is the right place to post this so lmk if there’s a better sub.
I started my weight loss journey 254 days ago and it has been going extremely well. It was the first time I wasn’t emotional about the process and just counted everything. Had a few cheat days but no major relapses or anything and I’m happy with what I look like, even though my journey is not completely done.
I do have a problem though. Ever since I reached a major milestone of abt 70 lost, I kind of just think less of fat people. Not like chubby or overweight but huge people that remind me of before I started CICO. I just kinda think they’re lazy and think that a lot of this “body positivity” is really stupid. I know it’s wrong to judge people like that, and I know I hated myself when I was that big and felt bad about it so it’s likely these people do too.
It was just so easy for me that I see all these people with BMIs of 35+ and I can’t respect them as people cuz they can’t control their eating. If anybody else has experience with this I’d love input. Thanks.
First time posting here. This post is more of a "off my chest" and questions.
So. Here I am, 25M, 5 feet 10 inches and three quarter, 205 lbs.
Here is my story.
When I was a kid (yes let's start there), I was a skinny small kid that liked to be cuddled in tightly in my bedsheets. Like a little sausage. Then, APPARENTLY when my parents got divorced, I started to gain weight. My peak was in university not so long ago where I weighted approximately 216 lbs or perhaps 222 lbs I don't remember. I lost weight during COVID when I moved back to my mom's house to live there with her and my sister instead of staying alone in my room with no one else. That was a good move. My mom and I started to watch our calories and we both lost weight. She continues today to track her calories, but I abandonned a long time ago. I got as low as 198 lbs.
Now, I live alone again in a new city (since May 2021) with, like, 1 friend (not that cl0se) and 2 other people I know but rarely see. My closest friends are in another city 1h30 away. My family too. I am gaining weight. Right now, I can't stop ordering Uber Eats. From August to October I've spent between $750 an $950 on food alone in each month. This is hurting my health and my wallet. I'm not in debt because of it, but I could surely save money and pay down faster other debts.
Now, of course, I am asking myself so many questions. I feel like my overeating is definetly linked to emotions. Like, why would I gain weight after my parents divorcing. It's not like the divorce was a surprise! But, I guess, it might have played a role since I always had difficulty to make friends (I preferred to talk to adults in elementary school until I was about 10 when I made a best friend for the first time and then I got more social).
Being in the new city right now doesn't help I suppose but, that whole social situation is altogether another problem (that might be linked). I know I should get out of my comfort zone more often. Meet new people. But after university this is really hard and unnatural.
On top of this, I don't like my job. I have difficulty to pinpoint what I don't like though. I think it has something to do with meaning and tasks actually. I like some tasks of course, but I know if I stay in this job I'll accomplish nothing. I'm an urban planner by the way. There are solutions to this problem though : I am applying to other jobs. In landscape architecture (my bachelor), transit planning (more data analysis which I like) and other jobs using more technical skills and working "by projects". I feel awful though that I don't like the job I studied for. I feel like it's a failure. What if I still don't like the other jobs? I feel awful to also tell eventually my amazing boss (she's so sweet, but she'll understand) that I'll be leaving for another job. If I succeed in finding another, I'll probably be moving again since the city I currently am in, there isn't a lot of opportunities even though the city is kinda nice. It's 140k people, and, I feel like I want to have a bigger impact in the world too. I have energy to spend and I was thinking going into the private sector for some jobs I mentionned.
However, if I move, should I move closer to my current friends and closer to my family (bigger city too) or move to the prettier city (still big but not as big) if I get a call back from this city instead? I do have friends in the other city, but not as close.
I want to mention that I am single and I never had any romantic relationship yet. I feel like I can't fall in love. I did try a bit, maybe not enough. Although, more recently (last two years) I feel like I am feeling more emotions and being able more and more to like and maybe even love some people! Which is a good sign. Just got to face my fears.
Anyway, back to overeating. I order restaurant food from UberEats because, first, I can order what I specifically want to eat right now and not prep it. I actually like cooking when I begin though. It's more about near-instant gratification. It's also about seeking a specific feeling. Like, watching a movie friday night with good food, but like every single evening. It's almost nostalgia or somthing. I also eat like I'm always going to miss something. Food or FOMO. And I live alone, it's not like someone will steal my food.
I feel, with everything I have written, that I am afraid of taking responsability of myself. To assert myself. To dig deep into something and stick with it (be it a job or dating). Of course, I want to change my current situation. I will change my job. But even then, if I am serious about it, I should consider a pay cut to really gain experience at first (in landscape architecture for example) which, again, is not easy to accept and feel like a failure a bit.
I am trying to work towards a better and happier life. I am very afraid to fail however. I did try weight watchers, calorie counting, physiqonomics (this one was nice actually), etc. I just can't stick with anything. I will try to stick to CICO again maybe. I just... It's frustrating not being accurate and approximating what I eat when I order food for example. I just go by with registring the main ingredients.
I think that sums up almost everything that goes on inside my head. If any of you has or had a similar situation or simply dealing with emotions and want to share your insights, I'd be more than happy to hear them.
Thank you :)
Hey everyone, I hope you all are doing well. So recently I've wanted to get back on the weight loss goal that I set, but couldn't do because of two waves of the pandemic in my country and various other reasons. I wanted to start a healthy habit that continues in 2022 and not make it a new year's resolution that I end up failing
The first time I lost weight at 19, I didn't really make sustainable habits and lost 30kg, but I would constantly beat myself up for eating so much, be happy for starving myself and got into self harm and in short depression and the need to be judged on the on my weight really caused me to drastic steps to lose weight.
I'm currently 23 years old and at 110Kg (242 Pounds) and would like to go down to 100-102 Kg (220-224 pounds) by the year end. I'm currently in a better place mentally, but this time I want to lose weight sustainably and would need your help in doing so. I've associated weight loss with a negative mindset because of my past experience and would like to know some positive approaches I can take when I fall off track with my diet plan.
PS. My body image of myself is positive and my health is one area I'm looking at improving to bring changes to my life.
I [22M] have been trying to lose weight for a very long time. Through the first half of 2020, I got down from 225 to 190, then hit a plateau for over a year.
Come august, I returned to my college campus and finally had access to a gym again, and started exercising multiple times a week, where I’m jogging for at least 2 miles and a mix of jogging and running for the remainder of 1 or 2 hours, for maybe 4-5 hours of exercise a week, more depending on how busy I am. During August and September, I ate roughly 1750 calories a day.
Despite the relatively large calorie deficit and exercise, I wasn’t losing any weight, so I lowered my daily intake to 1500 calories starting in the last week of September. Despite this, I’m still stuck at around 185-187 lbs. I don’t know where to go from here, because I just want to drop another 15 lbs, which shouldn’t be so hard after losing 35!
I have my Apple Watch synced to lose it! and my weight loss plan set to sedentary (work from home with light Pilates during the week and hiking on weekends) and losing 2lbs per week (female/35yo).
My calorie limit from lose it is 1432kcal/day, which sounds fine if I’m trying to lose quickly. However, I also have my Apple Watch synced which will add about 500 calories per day from “Active Energy” even if I’m not exercising.
The catch is I also know from experience that I have a low metabolism and that if I eat close to 2k a day then I will not lose weight, even with moderate exercise. How can I modify either the active energy settings or lose it calories so I have a better idea of what my calorie limit actually needs to be? I know I can’t choose to eliminate the active energy calories completely, but they seem very high for my activity level.
22, F, 80kgs, 5’3ft, student. My parents bring all these unhealthy junk food to home in large quantities, everyday I think to myself that I will stop eating those foods and it’s my last day today, but it doesn’t work.
Since in my culture, children are not allowed to move out of their parents’ house till they are married, I can’t move out and I am stuck.
I asked my parents if they could at least hide it or keep it somewhere I can’t see, they said no and I should learn to control my self own my own.
I tried to control myself but I can’t, I seriously need help.
I binge eat like crazy and then regret it the second later.
Any advice to stop binge eating?
Edit: I meant junk* in the title 😅
On mobile so sorry about the formatting!
I was sitting with a group of aunties yesterday. They started discussing multiple food etc then the topic of dieting was brought up. Everyone knows I am on a diet, I went from 106 to 70 kg at 161 cm in about a year. The aunties know that because I keep rejecting food etc. One of them looks at me and says was laughing "I sometimes want to have dinner then I think of you and I stop". I smiled and remained silent really because it's none of my business but I found it funny. It's kind of a humble brag? I don't comment on people's weight nor give diet advices unless asked because whatever works for someone wouldn't work for someone else.
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I'm doing a very strict diet to lose weight quickly (meeting ex girlfriend and I don't want her to see me fat.) And honestly the worst thing about it isn't hunger, it's that feeling of I don't know what to do with myself ??
I usually end up smoking weed, which sometimes makes me hungrier, so then I take a couple ritalin (I'm prescribed) and that makes the hunger go away but then I have to smoke more weed again to fall asleep.
I'm taking a lot of ritalin right now and just trying to get through all the projects I need to do. I feel this weird disassociation and disconnection from reality. Kinda light headed and not really bothered by anything. I've been doing this diet for a month, happy with my weight loss, but I need to keep it up for another couple months. I'd like some tactics to distract myself, if anyone knows what I'm talking about. I do exercise sometimes but I get dizzy easily because of the low amount of food.
I went to a birthday dinner with a few friends I went to grad school with. I’ve gained quite a bit of weight in the last few years due to a combination of hypothyroidism, PCOS, and an anxiety medication that caused very rapid weight gain. I know I need to lose weight. I am working on it. I don’t love the way I look, but I’m much better than I was before in terms of just accepting where I am now and knowing it isn’t a permanent situation and hiding myself or avoiding photos doesn’t change reality. But still, how do you deal with situations like this?
All three of the women I went out with are very thin, and are least 5 inches taller than me. I’m very short so the weight looks particularly noticeable on my short frame.
One of the women, the entire night, just kept calling herself fat and objectively speaking, she is not, by any measure, fat. As we talked about stories of when we were in school, she would again find a way to reference her own self in this way, when she has never objectively been large. With every photo we took, they all obsessively needed to check to make sure they didn’t look fat specifically, and complaining they did when they didn’t, but I clearly did. Especially in one set where we were sitting down for a shot and no table in front of us, I looked particularly large in comparison, sitting in the middle, and they kept re-shuffling around me to make sure they didn’t look “fat” in the photos. But they seemed to pause with this set, like waiting for me to not approve because I looked worse in those than the others, due to the fact we were sitting down. I just said they’re fine and I don’t care. They confirmed twice, while also continuing to complain about themselves. So I just let them do whatever they want and post whatever they want online. I genuinely have stopped caring, but this night it was just constant references and behaviors the entire night.
I just find these situations so uncomfortable. I just don’t say anything and let comments like this pass, and wait for the topic to change. I also don’t participate in the obsessing over the photos, because I know that at this point in time, I can’t change how I look in the photos, and in comparison to them, there simply won’t be one where I look amazing. I just don’t want to join in and get the fake “oh no you look amazing” comments from anyone and discussing my weight is far more emotional for me because it’s been a genuine struggle my entire life, but even more so lately.
Again, usually I let this stuff pass but it was just so constant this time, it almost felt like they wanted me to join in or self deprecate myself to make them feel better by saying no you look amazing, I’m the one that’s fat. I just felt so uncomfortable and just wanted to go home. Like when they are eating something while saying “oh I shouldn’t be eating this I’ll get fat” how am I supposed to then eat my dinner? Like I’m already fat, am I supposed to not eat at all? Is that what they’re thinking? Or if they say oh I’m so hungry I’m going to get fat, like I feel like I cannot ever say that I am hungry. I also end up feeling like I need to justify my meal, like oh I was working all day and haven’t had anything since breakfast aside from a protein shake. Am I supposed to be putting myself down with them, even though for me it’s true and evident, why do I need to publicly talk about it?
Idk I know this is something that’s common and people deal with it all the time, but what do I do or say in these situations. Do I just continue to stay quiet and just not acknowledge these kinds of comments and let them pass? Or something else?
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