I have begun losing weight, but my friend keeps saying I'm fat and how did I let myself get so big.

I lost my parents in a car crash a year ago and turned to food to cope. I put on 30 lb during this time I was a mess emotionally and physically.

Two weeks ago I started losing weight and tracking my food with cico. It is going smoothly so far.

But I have this friend who, every time we video call, which is several times a week, tells me I'm fat and says stuff like how could you eat so much how could you let yourself get so large.

I've explained countless times that it was what I did after losing my parents but that I've started my journey to get to a healthy state. She then tells me if you don't lose weight you'll never find a man, guys don't like girls who don't take care of themselves. She tells me do you think my boyfriend would be with me if I weren't so thin?

It is getting hard to hear her negative comments and I'm wondering if I should stick it out until I lose weight or take a break from this friendship?

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