Hi,
I ve been trying to loose weight all my life and my best successful attempt include doing CICO and following a routine. During a few months I spent time alone since my wife was finishing school and I was supporting her by working. I had total control over the groceries I bought and the kind of access I had to junk food and I lost 50 lbs but as soon as she came home (which I’m very glad she was home with me, I missed her so much )I started gaining weight because the way she does groceries is to buy a lot of snacks like chips , cookies , instant foods,etc and if she didn’t wanted to cook I offered myself to cook , I have no problem with that, but she always wanted to order fast food. If I bring up the subject she instantly turn defensive and it starts a fight .
I feel helpless , I love my wife and I love being with her , but I really fear that I won’t last until my 30 s if I keep like this . I weight 420 lbs and I’m 29 years old. I have felt pains that in times I have thought it’s a heart attack , something that I haven’t told anyone.
Please, does anyone have any advice.
Sorry for the grammatical errors , not a native speaker.
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